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    Default Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    I have a couple of questions...this girl i like after a month told me next:

    1. That I'm conservative. She asked what do I really want in life,she thinks that I'm to closed into myself.
    - I told her that I want to go slowly,and that I'm not opening myself that easy....What to change here? Should I speak more about my life and feelings?

    2. She said she want some solid stuff, just to tell her as it is.
    She said that she is the one who first move things like conversations.
    How can I express myself more?

    She thinks that I'm not care about her very much,but I am.

    I'm calling her everyday,so does she,text her,etc...I always first initiate date...

    We're still together, this is some issue that we discussed little earlier.

    Any help would be great
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    Have you and her slept together yet? Have you and her kissed yet?
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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    Try aggressive affection. Maybe she just needs to be pushed against the wall & kissed like shes never been kissed before.
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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    yes i have kissed her,we have very intimate moments,cuddling...b ut no sex yet. She have been to my place many times. I initiate sex,..only touch her *** (nothing more so far) ...

    I don't really know what she meant with those words "I need something solid"...I think she meant that I need to tell her more often how much I need her,how much I care about her,like her...

    This one is hard,she said that also...I like her very much and she likes me

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    she needs to be fucked harder. I'm serious. Also it sounds like you aren't expressing your real ideas and opinions about things to her. Like you come accross as a guy who is too polite at times because you are afraid to offend others. but that is just my guess from what you wrote, i could be wrong. but either way good luck with this.

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    What do u mean by farked harder? I'm expressing myself more,telling her more my feelings and stuff I like...doing great so far but no sex yet...
    thank u all

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    Be confident in what you're doing. I've noticed women sometimes try and tell you how much you should be X but they really want you to be Y. Don't fall into a trap of becoming an emotional needy mess with her.

    If she tells you to be more sensitive, just say "Like this?" and just kiss her passionately.

    I think that she wants you to be more aggressive and more assertive. Be more sure of your actions.
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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    thanks man
    i will give her what she wants,and tell her what she wants to hear,..then I will do what I wanna do

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    Woah man.. its natural every girl wants to find out more.personally; it not really necessary.focus on amping attraction more.one girl wanted me to sit and wait for her to clean her room whilst i had to be somewhere.that girl even though av told her enough.always wants more.be yourself and dont get trapped in impressing too hard.

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    Default Re: Need help with this girl I've been dating for a month

    And after that month since she told me that I need to express myself more, I did that, I opened myself more,tell her everything I have in my mind about her...We were constantly talking over phone,or in person,it was great time. I text her every day some beautiful messages, tell her in person how much I care about her and sh*t like that...and what did she do? Ok,first she never answer her phone when I call her,she didn't respond to all my messages, she didn't text me not nearly cute messages like I did nor she told me in person sh*t like that. She did call me every day but when she wants (I didn't mind when she don't answer to my call,but she always call me little later)...and after this 45 days,always when we cuddle (still no sex), I go for sex,but all I can get is get her top off and hand into her panties,but after couple seconds she pull my hand out :/
    This morning she text me "We need to talk tonight" (I knew what is all about,knew she want to break up with me)

    She came to my place little earlier this evening,we sat there and talk some random sh*t,and I tell her to cut the crap and tell me what she wants. She told me she can't see her in this relationship,it's just not it. I said it's OK. You don't have to explain. I was cold. It's over...she told me some sh*t more,she explained,but I didn't care coz I can't change this neither I want to do it. I just sat there and didn't speak..I was on the edge to tell her to go home,but she sat there and talk some random sh*t like nothing happened. Finally she put her jacket and I escort her outside and said to her "See ya,bye!" She said "you're acting like a moron", I said "ok i'm moron,good bye" , she said "chill out" and then she said good bye...

    point is that I gave her more than she gave back,she play (or she really is)hard to get like she said,...this kind of women don't know what they want,they want much but offer half less then you do. I guess I don't have luck with women,everyone looking for needle in the haystack :/


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