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    Default another date need some clarification

    so I chilled with this girl for a while today n my goal was to do a number of things.

    First off I believed I was in the friend zone which I am apparently not. On our last date I ended up using too much stupid random kino which I think gave her the vibe that I saw her as a sexual piece of meat, did too many things that indicated interest and she let me know in her own way. So I backed off this time, she kinod me a lot but I barely kinod her just to make her comfortable being with me. Was very uninterested and stayed solid about my points. Just slowly working my way into her head, I think its working. She seemed like she could chill with me 4ever and was having a good time so I cut the date short after a while.

    Now my main question is this, I did not understand what she was trying to pull here but I just ignored it completely not doing things on her terms or maybe I fked up lol.

    So as soon as she picked me up she started ranting like crazy about how she had many experiences with guys trying to kiss her, force it onto her, that type of stuff. She even tried to show me like grabbed me by the neck and pulled me towards her , but I treated it more like a tease lol. What is that should I have escalated and attempted to k - close her or what. I wasn't sure and didn't want to risk it, was just trying to get her more comfortable into coming to see me in person more often, because that was an issue. I'm in damage control zone right now so yeah. I left her feeling like she could not understand me, and it seems to have driven her a little mad lol I could see it, I think it worked, wants to see me tomorrow now too. I think I just need to escalate to k - close her, what do you guys think about her forced kisses story though.


    Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: another date need some clarification

    You'll hear girls say shit all day long about what guys should and shouldn't do. It can be tough, but you need to block all of it out. Verbally, they will not communicate the truth. They will communicate what they think they want rather than what they really want. Run your regular game.
    On a separate note, have you kissed her yet ?
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    Default Re: another date need some clarification

    your reply makes so much sense thanks.

    No I have not kissed her yet. Does it kind of seem like I really need to? LOL

    thing is when she grabbed me and pulled me towards her, I could have closed the distance and gone for it sort of but the thing is she was driving, did not want it to be a lame rushed thing/have her lose control and crash or sumn, just weird timing.

    ugh fudge I realize I could have maybe made an attempt at the end where I dhv'd and she froze I should have held her and tried something there slowly closing the gap, she was on an emotional high should have but w.e. it wasn't on my mind at all for the whole date, it was on my mind on our last date and I ended up showing to much interest, so I guess I just need a balance between both and good kino. Should I be qualifying her when she dhvs for me? I don't do that either pretty bad, bleh.


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