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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Yes! Continue the month! That is standard. I will not tell u that again. Also game other girls like I said. It's vital. Just game them. And mention them to her in passing (so and so did this funny thing ha ha).

    The only way you should go out of your way to see her isif she says the Bf and her are on bad terms. And even if u do meet up, have an escape plan (some excise to leave) because she may just want to cry about him with you... Which is not good. You are not her therapist (obviously give her like a minute or two of consolation but that's it. No more than that).

    Actually if she asks for a meetup two weeks in, you probably can do it. But you have to flirt with her before that to gauge what she thinks of you. If she's also flirty she may be ready for u. Build attraction now.

    And please if you meet her act alpha. Kino her a lot, don't take her crap either lol
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Will do lockdown. the no contact is working. I'll keep you guys posted.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Alright so far by day 5 of no contact she initiated contact after a month of me doing the initiating. as of day 7 she initiated contact again and in this conversation she told me she missed me. now as of day 10 no word but she usually contacts me at night so we'll see tonight. the ultimate goal of the 30 days of no contact was to get her to notice my absenence correct? when i met this girl she had only been in a relationship with her boyfriend 2 months. as of today they have been together 8 months total and ive been in the equation for 6 of those months. i havent seen her face to face in 2 months since she quit. i think her interest level must be somewhere around 75 to 80 percent in me. considering shes 18 and hasnt seen me in two months and has a boyfriend and admitted that she missed me the other night. somehting must be missing from there relationship. i'll continue with the 30 days. however from a curious perspective i'd like to know the science behind the no contact 30 days? what is it suppose to accomplish? it's working but id like to know why it is.


    also every time she has contacted me i have kept things light and humorous.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    You're simply just showing her that you aren't needy and/or dependant on her, and that you have a life and are busy with other shit and possibly other women. This displays a higher value. You are working on attracting her and keeping her interested in you, remember?

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    I guess what im worried about is she'll think i dont want to talk to her since shes 18 and sensitive. the 2 times shes gotten a hold of me during these thirty days i've been involved in the conversation and kept it light and funny. I guess i dont want her to think that because i haven't initiated that im not interested anymore. i'm on day 12 right now, she's initiated twice after a month of no initiation. and on the secound initiation she said she missed me. maybe i'm just being weak right now and need to relax.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    You basically have it correct. That gut instinct you feel is neediness. That's why we say keep busy with other ladies. It will allow you not to miss her. After you rengage, you will see that her feelings are still there. And they will be even stronger rain before
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Yeah it's slowly starting to wear off, it's difficult. She actually just texted me so I'll let you guys know how it goes. you're input is always appreciated!

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    Alright tonight was day 13 of the 30 days. she's contacted me three times since I began no contact after an entire month of her not initiating any conversations. so she contacted me tonight about a picture I posted on instagram. our conversation was really light had somelaughs. I got the impression that she wanted to see if I'd reply. She was matching my length of time to reply pretty much the whole time. I think she really does miss me. there has been no REAL indication of her trying to say "heyyy pay attention to me!!" type behavior.

    It's funny that I haven't seen this girl face to face in nearly 3 months yet her interest level still seems close to 75 to 80 percent. if she starts texting me everyday again how should I do that with the no contact? it's fine as long as it's her correct?

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Why don't you have any face to face in 3 months? Does she live far? Is there stuff you can do in your area and invite her?

    Are u gaming other girls at all? Because it really sounds like your obssessing right now. You truly need to understand that yes you like this girl, yes you'd love to bang/date her or whatever but in the end if she didn't talk to u anymore than screw her because YOU DON'T NEED HER. You have to start acting that way and believe it. And don't take it out on her for not liking you. Focusing your feelings onto one person is not healthy. Yes she is losing out because you're awesome but no need to make her the focus of bad feelings.

    And I can give you a lot of advice or tips but if you don't understand and take to heart the principles it's useless. What if she never gets with you? Are you going to ask us all again next time how long you should freeze out or why?

    Not to be mean but these are the ugly thoughts you must conquer in order to truly master pickup.
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    No, i'm talking to other girls but they havent grasped my interest. I've had some flings but i prefer a long term relationship. i can see myself having one with this girl. When i first started talking to her within the first 2 months i asked her out on 3 dates. she pretty much flaked on all of them. so i gave up and moved on. i was also working with her at the time and i had alot of face to face with her and i started to really like her. In October we had a argument about some stuff that i was hearing about her and some stuff that i was confused about. everything was put on that table in the argument.

    She said in that argument that if she had met me before her boyfriend things would be different bewteen me and her. she also said the reason she wasnt doing anything with me was because there relationship was shaky and she was afraid if she did something with me that he would go with a girl. From what i can tell the boyfriend IS NOT A PLAYER. infact he seems like a push over. and im saying that unbiased.

    This girl has 1 bestfriend that is a female and thats pretty much it. If shes not with her family shes with the boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 17 and in highschool. shes 18 and graduated. i'm 22. shes going to college in april and hes moving to ohio in August.

    I dont have Oneitis anymore i did for sure awhile ago. Also before she quit we actually had a day set to do something that SHE setup. this was after my 3 attempts to make something happen. again she flaked on her own date thus irritating me and causing the argument in October.

    The thing is this chick does not hang out with anyone but her family, the boyfriend and maybe one of her girlfriends every once in awhile if ever.

    I Genuinely like her. i dont like her just because she is taken or a challenge. I also dont believe she is seeking attention from me because i dont pump her ego up when we talk.

    I truly believe she likes me. i think theres something there. I've just used all my ammunition on what to do. Shes obviously still interested. After a month of her not getting ahold of me unless i got ahold of her, shes gotten ahold of me 3 times now in 13 days. Shes confusing the hell out of me. thus leading me to you guys for you're excellent help and guidance which i'm using and its working.

    It's 2 months later from when she said the reason why she cant hang out. Maybe i'll ask her if she wants to do something fun. I have three spots from childhood that have hilarious stories maybe we'll go for a walk to those spots and then get some food or hot chocolate w/e. If she ignores me, i'll next her. if she says yes should i treat her as if she was single...kino...flir t...ect?


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