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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Always treat her like she is single.

    This is super crazy but that girl sounds like one I know in my area. Same thing. 18, boyfriend, hangs with family. Is your girl a pilot by any chance too lololol???

    Anyway, the girl sounds super sheltered. IF the boyfriendis a pushover, she may just like him a lot. I don't think a relationship between a 17 and 18 year old could be considered strong. Also if they live apart, I'm sure he is doing other girls.

    She may also be very shy about bringing boys around hee family. So maybe that's why she can't hang out. As in she needs a good excuse to see you and doesn't want the family to know. In that case, you should def try to meet her in a place where there is no indication that something is happening between you two... The mall, a museum or amusement park... Anything that she can tell the parents she is going to check out with her girlfriends and not be discovered.

    A PU artist leaves a girl better than when he found her so you need to make her comfortable with the fact that you wont get her in trouble with the parents by knowing her boundaries. The best way to do that if you can is to meet them while they are with her. So you can do some comfort on the parents ("you raised daughter well" "hard to be parents nowadays" etc). But be careful how you introduce yourself. You are 22 so they will he skeptical about your intentions. Say your a friend from school or whatever. No not "friend" lol. Just say you have classes with her once in awhile. With parents you must show no intention to get with the girl. Just casual friendship.


    Not sure about this strategy but it sounds like it may work for this girl if she is sheltered
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    unfortunately not a pilot hahaha. but you're exactly right she is sheltered. they do live apart. I have actually met the mother at work and the girl actually introduced me to the mother and me and the mother talked about common interest for a solid 10mins before I had to get back to work.

    but I also think she doesn't want someone to see her with me and have them think she is cheating cause I do believe she really likes him. but I also believe she has a thing for me. It'shardfor me to tell if I'm frfriend zoned because we don't do friend stuff. our conversions aren never about the boyfriend. when we talk the conversation is always focused on me and her. in fact she's never tried to bring him up and tried to get me to give her any type of relationship advice.

    I get the impression that she does have feelings for me but is to young to realize how to handle it. I just can't see why she would still have an interest level pretty high for a guy she's never hanged out with. it doesn't add up. either I left a damn good impression or she has feelings somewhere in there. also she doesn't drive, so maybe she doesn't want family to see her hanging with another guy especially her father.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Dude you answered your own question lol.

    Why does she like a guy she rarely sees??? ITS THE SAME REASON YOU DO A FREEZE OUT.

    If she is emotionally insecure, just knowing she has a Bf is validation for her. Every time she does see him It probabaly goes really well. So she has this fairy tale version of him in her head. And being away from him enhances that... Just like it will enhance you because you are staying away.

    I agree that this girl is sheltered and ripe to get with you. You should start hinting that you want to hang out. And play it up like she wants you. But start subtle. So subtle that she won't know what you're thinking.

    Ex. When she texts you again, mention the weather... Like people are wearing hats more or something. And say people's hair gets all messed up when they wear hats. And say that you are thinking of shaving your head to not deal with crazy hair. Then ask her what her hair looks like. If it's different than you remember, say wow I guess I haven't seen you in awhile. If it's the same, than just say you don't remember exactly becuase you haven't seen her in awhile. (Obviously I am leaving out her responses. But this isn't one text. This stuff is over an entire conversation)

    Don't push for a date at this point. If she pushes for one tell her your busy and will just have to let her know when you are avail. And then follow my previous advice of just seeing her at the mall or whatever. Make sure you have something to do so u can bail if you need to.

    Again, just hint that you may want to see her. Play around if she says she wants to see you too. Like say playingly that she wants you so bad and stuff. But don't actually get back to her about seeing her until the month passes.
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    lockdown, I like that. damn. I'll keep you posted and let you know what happens. thanks again much appreciated

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Wow give me a chance! I had to edit lol.
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    woops lol. Alright so her pattern has been since i started the freeze out shes contacted me about every 2 days. Which i think is decent considering this chick didnt initiate any conversations in November. I'm going to implement the winter hat thing next time she gets ahold of me (Clever by the way, Lockdown). i'm about half way through the freeze out, its been tough but it is getting easier. yesterday she never got ahold of me but did like a picture i had on instagram, so id have to say the freezeout has been a success so far. Since i started it 15 days ago she has initiated contact 3 times. I think i read in a thread somewhere by Xavier that the reason freezeouts work is because if there was any attraction at all it will become MAGNIFIED during the freezeout. correct? if that is the case i think i'm seeing some good signs from her.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Tonight she texted me again for the fourth time during the freeze out. she said " i'm probably going to fall asleep soon because i took my medicine awhile ago..But just thought I'd say Hey. Whats been up?". Kinda sounds like shes pissed or sad. I told her that ive been busy with finals, which i have been and then texted back and fourth a little joking with her. and a little after that im assuming she fell asleep. I must be confusing the shit out of her because she's expecting me to say something like "I dont want to talk to you anymore" but i'm just being my usual self.

    earlier in the day she liked a picture i posted on instagram aswell. Shes kept with the pattern of contacting me every 2 to 3 days. but this text looked like it hit her emotionally. Is this a good sign? every time shes contacted me ive been how i normally am and a little more on my game because the time away has been healthy for me. Are we seeing the results we need to see especially since i'm only half way through the freeze out?

    Also i believe now the "i miss you" wasnt a bullshit ploy to get me back into AFC. i believe she really does miss me. She needs to start texting me earlier in the day so i can get some conversation flowing for more then a few replies. Shes been texting me late at night. Should i re-engage sooner rather then later? or are these typical results? i've never EVER had to do this with a chick. even though when i talk to her im bubbly, funny my normal flirty self, i dont want her to get the impression that i dont want to talk to her anymore, seems like shes feeling that way. She'd make both our lives easier if she just said "Lets hang out".

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    I told you to start to say you miss her subtly. Why did you not use what I told you? You can show a little interest now. Also, don't text her as soon as she replies because that will make her too comfortable knowing that she can get a response from you whenever you feel like.

    Tomorrow, out of the blue send her a funny meme in the middle of the day. Something related to her. Something that says he was thinking of me. If she is a brunette it could be something about how they are better than blondes or something. See how she reacts. If she reacts well, don't worry you're doing ok.

    Also, just because u atlre on freeze out doesn't mean you don't show completely no interest. You can start now as I said before but subtly. She seems like she is texting you quite often so you can gear up the seduction stuff.

    U really feel you are so hung up on this girl that you are afraid of losing her. That will not put you in your right mind. Calm down. I'm sorry you're first freeze out is on a girl you really like but trust me, it won't kill her. It won't make her hate you. Don't let fear of learning a new way to attract women stop you from acting.

    I only say this because you are really starting to ask for every move. I didn't invent freeze outs. You can gogle articles easily. But my main thing with pickup is testing and failing. If you don't fail, you won't learn.

    You know what... Go ahead. Ask to see her. She's contacted you a billion times. Maybe she already came around. Maybe she's ready. Go ahead and build up to it this week (go from subtle to telling her you want to hang out between now and next Friday).If she says no you can always finish the freeze out.
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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    well lockdown, I appreciate all you're guidance. and I appreciate the help. I'm in a tough situation that I'm having a difficult time figuring out. hopefully it has a positive ending.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Lockdown i did as you said. i sent a Hilarious meme at 12pm about a show that she watches. no reply but she was active on facebook. its now 12am and no reply. So i decided that id initiate which i did. she instantly replied. ive noticed that since ive temporary i guess ended the freeze out her replies are larger with more thought in them. i implemented the winter hat thing too "plant the seed". She's into me. i can tell. she always has been. a girl that isnt into you doesnt stay around a guy she has NEVER hanged out with or have any interest in. she was actually slightly flirty back which hasnt happend in awhile. its too early to say "lets go out i want to see you". shes a girl that moves VERY slow and shes loyal. BF destroyer wouldnt work on her.

    Trying to decide if i should continue freeze out since ive initiated twice now...in one day...i also gave her high IOI's that im still interested in her. When i asked if she has a mohawk or something now she said "lol no. still plain ole' me." (trying to qualify herself?). i followed that with "good, cause i like plain ole' you." and she replied "thank you!"went slight AFC there but i felt it was necessary and then i ended the conversation. whats you're opinion?


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