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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Got to say i agree with Raid, have a little more self-respect, sounds like you are chasing too much, you are too available. She definitely doesn't think of you as someone sexually compatible with her at this point in time.

    Move on.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Quote Originally Posted by iamchance View Post
    there was an entire month where things where really good it was after i froze her out .
    That wasn't a freeze out man,that was a poor attempt at freeze out unless you did another freeze-out which you didn't tell here.

    Also what do you mean by "an entire month where things were really good ?"Is it the one you told us here ?Did you bang other chicks ?Does she know about it ?If you mean that month where she was initiating texts,that's nothing,that was a good start but you blew it by being too available and then going back to being her puppy and texting her on a regular basis(2 times a week was it ?).

    Like I said move on,it's been too long and there's no progress at all.I'm not bringing you down,I inspire you to game other girls and not to get obsessed with this chick,you clearly have oneitis which you said you didn't some pages ago,if you don't then prove it,go out and have fun and forget about her.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Alright guys. ive been in contact with her today. she liked a picture i posted and then texted me. so i asked how she was and she says "I'm alright :P how are you?" first time shes contacted me in about 9 days.

    Now my next move was i was going to ask for a meet up. but thats not my problem. my problem is her saying "I'm alright :P how are you?" do you think thats her subtlety telling me shes over the boyfriend? it just seems like shes sending me a hint here.

    My strengths lay in my face to face contact not so much texting. its been about a week since the break up. so i dont want to jump the gun on a meet up if shes not ready.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    You are getting good advice, better than you deserve at this point. You haven't absorbed or taken seriously anything any of us have said to you. You're taking "I'm alright :P how are you?" as some sort of secret message? You're in big trouble here. Your entire frame is a big problem.

    Have you had any sort of relationship at all with any other girls this an entire time? I'm about 95% sure you haven't. You think you're going to be able to be cool around her face to face when you're freaking out this way just with texting? She has become your #1 priority. You are obsessed with her. There is absolutely no way you are gonna be able to hide that from her and pretend like it's no big deal, and that's why if you meet up with her right now you are fucking SCREWED.

    You should have been making changes in your frame and your mindset all these months, not sitting around thinking about her, asking us stupid questions, and obsessing over the thought of her breaking up with her boyfriend. You should have been working on yourself, meeting girls, working on things you are passionate about, working out... Whatever. If you had done that it may have just happened organically upon her being ready to see other people.

    She's gonna need to be attracted to you, so ask yourself: What is there to be attracted to right now? You being obsessed with her is a major turn off in case you didn't already know that.

    Stop picking apart her texts and trying to strategize how you are going to make her yours. Read my last post over again, but this time take it in. It is good advice, you've gotten a lot of great advice from some really smart guys who know what they are talking about. Its too early remember? Work on yourself. Don't set up a fucking meet.

    We obviously all wanna see you make this happen.. You need to start heeding this shit and taking it more seriously if you really like her. Instead of texting her, go download the Tinder app on your phone and start clicking on hot girls. Get some phone numbers. Go get laid. Start being awesome.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    She agreed to go to the movies with me. there was no resistance at all. I didnt label it a date. because its only a week after she broke up...so i didnt label it anything (twentynine said not to rush anything). the secound time we go out ill call it a date. this is the first time im doing anything with this girl 1 on 1. My goal is to be flirty light and fun. i'll throw kino when i can.

    For our first initial meeting it will be movies and dinner.

    Opinions?

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    Try what you can I guess,nothing to lose at this point,since you asked her out already.

    I hope for your own sake that she's really interested and not just looking for someone to talk about her ex-boyfriend.If she brings it up,change the subject.

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    Default Re: Why is she acting this way

    If she starts talking about her ex-bf just look at her like she is a cute little retarded girl with that "awe you're so sweet" smile and tell her she is with you for the evening.

    It is totally not the greatest idea ever but it always works for me.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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