A very weird and exciting coincidence happened to me lately. Let me give you some background first.
Last summer I went out with a friend of mine and some of his other friends. They had some girls with them and we partied all night long in several nightclubs around the city. A particular girl among them was smoking hot, beautiful face and perfect body. She was distant and cold with all of the guys, and one of them in particular was hitting on her hard!
I learned from my friend that she actually has turned every guy that approached her down for as long as she knows her and later he told me that she knows from a friend of hers, that she is a virgin. This hit me really hard since she is around 23 years old.
So, all in all, loser boy in me took over that night and I didn't approach her. I convinced myself that I wasn't in the mood for wild hunting and settled for playing with other girls that night, even though I could only think about her.
Some months later, that same girl showed up at my workplace! We actually work in the same office now at different floors. At first I hadn't realized that she was her until it struck me! I am totally amazed by that coincidence. I don't believe in fate etc., lol, but I'm sure that I should not let this chance go by!
I have heard that a lot of guys at the workplace have already approached her and all of them have been instantly turned down.
I don't know if she remembers me but we have exchanged a LOT of looks and a female friend of mine told me (without her knowing that I already know her) that she sneaked many peeks at me. She probably is trying to figure out from where does she know my face, hehe!
So, because I want to progress further than looking, I want to collect some wisdom from you guys on what strategies I can employ to turn this one into a success story. This seems a very hard case, because she might have some strong emotional issues. Turning every guy down for years and being a virgin in such an age doesn't sound very healthy to me, so I would also like to know your opinion on if I should not pursue this at all.
Thanks in advance.