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Thread: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

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    Question Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    I'm a new single, 19 year old guy in my second year of university. I recently got out of a one year long relationship.

    I have been getting back into the game, going out and sarging around campus, hitting the clubs and coffee shops that are popular around campus etc. In the process I've discovered my rep has taken a hit in a negative way and I'm wondering if there is anything I could do to counter-act this? It's not just a one-off, it's happened several times since I've starting gaming again.

    Thanks in advance guys!

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    Default Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    What do you mean your rep ha taken a sudden turn for the worst?
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    You have to give more detail here. How has your rep taken a hit? Is it from sarging or in other ways?

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    Default Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    ya need more details. What exactly has happened to your reputation? and how exactly are you being social with girls in the daytime?

    With the limited info you provide i can only say don't let it bother you and be completely honest to every girl you interact with.

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    Default Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    I posted a thread before in the dating section but basically here's what happened: In high school I was the stereotypical unpopular geek/loser. I discovered PUA in the summer after I graduated high school. It helped me get more social, lose my virginity and come out of my shell. That fall I started university and a couple of months in I got a girlfriend (my first) Her hair was collar-bone length when we started dating. Both when we met and when we started dating she told me that every 2 years she cuts off all her hair short like the actress from Harry Potter to donate for wigs for people with cancer. After a year of dating, it came time for her to cut again. But I didn't want her to cut it because I'm only attracted to girls with long hair, not short. I told her not to cut it, she kept saying I knew this was going to happen going in and she warned me before we started dating. On the night before her hair appointment when it was clear she wasn't going to consider my opinion I broke up with her.

    So I guess word has gotten around as to why I broke up with her. There are tons of people on campus but girls must talk, and I have had so many girls tell me off and call me a "shallow jerk" and worse in class or when I go out sarging. I was a fairly social guy even when I was dating my girlfriend so lots of people know me, and I guess that has helped the news of what happened spread. Basically what I'm looking for is a way to counter-act the negative idea girls who've heard this have in their heads. I don't think what I did was wrong at all but we all know that girls are illogical so they might not feel the same way. I live and work on campus, so I really need to turn my rep around because right now I don't have any opportunities to sarge in places besides on campus or the areas really close to campus. Thanks in advance guys!

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    Default Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    Quote Originally Posted by jtraven View Post
    I don't think what I did was wrong at all but we all know that girls are illogical so they might not feel the same way. I live and work on campus, so I really need to turn my rep around because right now I don't have any opportunities to sarge in places besides on campus or the areas really close to campus. Thanks in advance guys!
    Like I keep said before, and I feel like I will say it again here, "stop using the game for all the wrong reasons." Also, being "alpha" is not about telling people what to do, and somehow "punishing" them when they don't. But being alpha is being honest to yourself and others, be good hearted, and above all keeping your word and stand by it no matter what.

    If she warned you that she cuts her hair for a noble cause every two years, before you started dating and you agreed, then being alpha would be keeping your promise. Besides, come on man, she does something to helped others, and you just being selfish.

    Now for your reputation, "The 48 laws of power", states in law number five: "So much depends on your reputation- guard it with your life." you failed to do so, and now personally I think you should apologize to her. Understand that it is NOT to repair your reputation but because honestly you were wrong.

    There is not much you can do at this point, but remember, "time heal all."
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    Yup..I remember a group a guys here (including me) telling you what to do. You didn't listen and you shall suffer the consequences. Live and learn and truly try to understand what it means to be an "alpha" male

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    Cool Re: Gaming girls after my reputation has taken some negative hits?

    You get what you give...So give what you want.


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