Re: being transparent bad or good?
I disagree. I don't think going for the 'hotter' girl is any thing you should be concerned with. This is shallow and irrelevant if you're not attracted to her personality.
Originally Posted by maxtazm
Also, being honest about what you want is a horrible idea. If we all did that, going up to a girl and telling her you want to fark would be a standard pick-up line. It can work, but very rarely. I wouldn't recommend it if you're inexperienced lol.
Be spontaneous and unpredictable. Being predictable is boring. The fact that the girl knows you're into her isn't horrible since they might assume this if you talk to them in the first place, but it sounds like you've come on too strong somehow if she's so definite about it. Could there be some sort of friend relaying your 'secrets' to your crush?
On the other hand, I've seen first hand the power of talking to two women at the same time. It actually amps up your image as they can get jealous and start to somewhat fight for your attention. Think about how you can use this to your advantage.
Discovering PUA one step at a time.
Feel free to disagree with my opinions. I encourage it!