So I've been using the boyfriend destroyer as by what Xavier suggests and am a bit stuck, the conversation hasn't progressed as I'd expected and am looking on how to proceed... also any feed back on how I've done so far would be appreciated.
Conversation so far...
ME: "So does your boyfriend not mind you making new male friends via a dating site?
I've got to admit I'm pretty curious as you've not mentioned him at all since we've been chatting, I take it you guys must have been together a while since you're living together, he must be awesome. I'm guessing he's like 6ft, alternative, y'know the most perfect guy in the world? haha"
HER: "Hi, been sleeping most of the day lol. I thought this was a social site not dating site. Don't you have to pay for dating sites? lol what are you curious about? We've been together 10yrs, own a house together and have 2 cats & a dog. He's 5'9 into the same music etc as me very handsome & a good guy"
ME: "You light weight and no not all of them need paying for... Haha he sounds perfect hehe you sound really happy to"
HER: "Nobody's perfect but he does make me happy"
ME: "Speak for yourself haha, you're probably way to hard on him all you women are hehe, to their partners I mean"
HER: "Speaking from experience by any chance? lol"
ME: "Not at all, I've always believed when you're with someone you show them how much you care you don't just tell them... but I've heard a lot of my friends grumble about it in the past. haha "
So what do you guys think? Oh and please I don't need comments on how objectionable this is, this girl is incredible and I know if she wasn't already attached she'd be open to dating me.