Warning, AFC Alert!
A few months ago, I have already asked for advice for gaming a hired gun. So... it's still the same HB! Yeah, pretty pathetic...
So, she is an extremely hot (at least HB9 but rather an Hb 10) bartender, who work at the basement level of my favourite bar. I started a conversation with her a few time months monthes ago, she responded well back then, it turned out she was attending the same scool I was, we were talking about what she was studying and what I am working, etc. We have always had brief convos, but I tried to DHV and stuffs. Once, I asked if a lot of guys hit on her at this bar - she said yes. I said yeah, one of my exes worked as a bartender here, and she had the same experience. Other time, we talked about the customers she had, and during the conversation, I mentioned that she is pretty, so she must get much more tip than the ones who doesn't look so good - and she just blush a bit, quietly saying thank you.
So, I haven't met this girl for weeks or months - I always ended up sitting other places of the bar with my friends. But today, we were at the basement level, where she actually works as a bartender. First, we ordered beer, noting special, but she looked at me as she recognized me. At ordering the second round, I ask if her name is "Nori" - because a few weeks/months ago, I asked her name and she told me. I made a few short jokes, she laughed. Every other time we ordered something, we talked a few words - and she smiled at me, responding every time - some cases she said something without asking. Once, I asked if she may be tired of bar and stuffs because working here all week, and she must avoid places like this bar with her boyfriend or girlfriends - she said yes, she was trying to avoid bars, going some better, more classy places. There were a few conversations like that, once, when I didn't started anything like that, she gave back my change saying "Oh, I gave you my lasts" - and she laughed what I responded.
She is a hired gun, so I'm not sure if I was getting her IOIs good, or she is just dealing with me as a normal customer. My friends who were with me said she definitely likes me. One of my friends went to her asking about the Wifi code and tried to start a conversation with her - but he said, the girl didn't responded as well as she responded me in the same situation, and that he didn't get that much attention.
Finally, at the end of the night, I just acted like a pussy - went home without even trying. It was in my head to go to her asking "Ok, so you are fed up with bars... what about coffee shops? Let's grab a coffe, give me your number" - but I was chickened out. What do you think, should I have said this? I was afraid that she is so hot, she must have a boyfriend... I know I acted like an AFC. But I must ask, what do you think - was she sending me IOIs or just treated me as a regular customer? What shuould I do when I go to this bar the next time?