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Thread: DIRECT game and push/pull?

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    Default DIRECT game and push/pull?

    Can you devote yourself to direct game and be a master of push/pull? I ask cuz direct is telling girls you think their cute and push/pull is kind of being mysterious.
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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    Yeah you can. Direct game is really easy but to get good at push/pull you'll have to work at it
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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    push pull can be incorporated into direct game. as a matter of fact I like to use direct game, but with a certain willingness to walk away at any time. completely non-needy direct game does create a push pull dynamic. it says
    " I want you in my life, but I don't need you in my life to be successful"

    by not overinvesting in her, you are creating a push pull dynamic. keep her gaming you and seeking your approval (make her earn it)

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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    or when you she a girl you want to approach you open with "you are the most beautiful girl i seen.....in the last 15 minutes" an example of push/pull

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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    Thanks guys,

    Hey I love the idea of having her seek my approval. I find after I fark a girl, I get attached. It's weak and I dont like it. I shouldnt be like that cuz I f*rk girls on the regular.

    If you could help me out, Id appreciate it. How do I resist my attachment and have them work for my approval?

    This last girl I farked says to me just before I fark her "R u interested in a relationship, like if we got to know each other more?" I replied "I'm open with the right girl" then i fark her...and now she seems to have lost interest. Last two randoms I farked cut me off in the middle of sex and driving them home in the morning, both were quiet...like I dont think my sex is bad at all. the first said i was too rough (she didnt like the spanking) and said she found it "annoying" the second one after i asked her why she wont let me finish says "I havent had sex in awhile"....like are they telling me im bad in bed or am i reading this too deeply? also how do i keep myself from not getting attached to them. this second one, im going for round 2. Hotel in niagara falls after a club. going this friday night, of course im paying for this..
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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    like are they telling me im bad in bed or am i reading this too deeply?
    I know exactly what your problem is.

    direct game requires a certain amount of "sincerity" as in you have to really truly want the girl for her to accept it. these girls probably feel like you're using them for sex. they want to feel like you really do like them and don't just want in their panties.

    its perfectly fine to show greater levels of interest if you really do want a relationship. if you only want sex then tell them that before you have sex with them. some girls will be open to friends with benefits, while most will want some kind of emotional connection.

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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    Hey that was great advice my friend!
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    Default Re: DIRECT game and push/pull?

    Bro this is sooo true. thank you!

    I think thats why they both asked me out before I f*rked them.

    They both cut me off before I could cum because they didnt want to feel like they were whores and I guess very little emotional connection....proabl y doesnt help that I f*rk hard and rough ( altho most girls Ive encountered enjoy this)
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