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    Default she thinks im gay -.-

    so ive been texting this girl recently,and i made a couple gay jokes. so now she says i like d1ck and calls me gay.i can tell this is a possible sh1t test.and i know that she really doesnt think im gay and is playing around.but its getting to annoying point already. how can i un-gayify myself or perception to thinking im gay.

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    Default Re: she thinks im gay -.-

    This is a big sh1t test. She doesn't think your gay. Take control of the situation by using what she says. "your right. I love the c*ck. How did you know?! If I wasn't gay you would sooo be mine!" That sort of thing. Actually the "If I wasn't gay you would so be mine" line I got from the book "the game" and it works/is fun.

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    Default Re: she thinks im gay -.-

    Who cares? lol. Unless you are homophobic, just be confident and play it out. One thing I learn is when ppl tease you and you embrace it, you can move past it and turn the tables, but if you resist it, all it does is it reinforces your insecurities and the more they will do it.

    If the girl doesn't give a rats ass about you, then she wouldn't be this invested in playing with you. So be grateful.

    You can play it out by coming up with pet names for her. So now you both have an inside joke.

    About embracing the gay jokes and moving past it...there is this thing called a "strawman's fallacy." You build yourself as being so gay that she is unable to keep up and her w/e shit test comes crumbling down, eventually she will stop because it will look like it has no effect on you.

    So everytime she busts out the gay jokes, just play it up. Invite her out to a male strip club so u can both check out guys. If she hesitates, then say "What's the matter? What, you don't like buff sweaty guys? Are YOU hiding something from me? Come on you can tell me. I'm your best gay friend. I got a job at a hair salon and women tell me their problems all the time." And be very gay about it.

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    What my friend did that was very funny was, you scope out guys together. "What about that dude right there? He is good looking and I bet he has a good personality. Yea, I'd fvck 'em. Who would you fvck?" If she points out to a guy criticize her taste in men. "Damn you women have no taste in men. You always go for guys who are ugly, but they are rich or assholes."

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    Default Re: she thinks im gay -.-

    I actually use this to my advantage. As all the other posters said, just play it up.

    One time... And I don't know if your inner game is good enough... A girl called me gay and I kinda played along... To the extreme lol. I had known her awhile so it's was just playful. Par for the course of our relationship and all.

    So anyway. She called me gay. I say "nah I'm not gay. Except that one time... (Laugh). But that's a long story." She showed interest because I was being open sounding (and no, I was joking I never went there with a guy). She started asking questions, I am hesitant to answer and tell her I'm not sure I should tell you. She asks why.

    I whisper in her ear, touching her with my nose and cheek, my hand is on hers also and say,"cuz picturing me with another man is turning you on pervert."

    She squeezes my hand pulls away and looks down nervously, shocked that I put that thought in her mind. Then later, It was way easier to escalate and I would do things like put her finger in my mouth and pretend to do u know what. Every time it was clear that she was getting hot... Turning red and stuff. Once I mentioned some guy and she said if u get with him can I watch? Lol

    Oh and completely unrelated... Women prob have been with other girls more than men have been with other guys. So if you're comfortable enough to say stuff like a guy is good looking or you've seen great looking shemales or something, it's comforting for her. Shows her that you have thought about other guys withou being homophobic. And that if she wants a girl, it's ok to be open about it.
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    Default Re: she thinks im gay -.-

    thanks for the new perspective guys i'll definitly try this out. and that's good ideas i can use,still learning how to control the frame.


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