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    Eagertolearn is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Need help with a Freeze Out

    Hey guys, I've known about PUA for about four years, but recently have not been doing so well with it. I am still a teenager and I love women. Here is my problem:

    About four or five weeks ago, a random cute girl at a bus stop opened me and we began talking. I did some routines on her (including the cube, which she loved!) and then, after hanging with her for two hours, I got her number. She is a black-haired B7.5 (not HB). She is also 21. She really liked me and she thinks I am 19.

    A week later I took her on a date which she really enjoyed and we hooked up for a while. After about half an hour of kissing, we parted ways. Due to a really busy schedule, I haven't hung out with her in three or four weeks and her attraction/connection seems to be dying down. I was really hoping for an F-close sometime soon.

    Unfortunately, I may have tried to get a little too much connection and may have been friend-zoned. Two days ago, she said we were just friends. When I responded, offering that we remain FWBs, she said "I want to take things day by day."

    I thought it would be a good idea to freeze her out to counter this. Am I making the right decision? How do I freeze her out over text? She recently texted me saying "hey," should I be not so responsive over text or completely ignore her? Please help!

    P.S.-Please do not respond by telling me that I shouldn't try to get with her due to the age gap. If you have some helpful advice, I would absolutely love to hear it but I'm not looking for people to tell me that I am too young for her.

    Thanks a lot guys!
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    Default Re: Need help with a Freeze Out

    You can't completely ignore, but you can remain aloof. Use short replies etc. if she is texting you. Don't let her treat you like a "friend," if she does change the subject, and don't respond.

    Whats a "B7.5 (not HB)"? lol
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    Eagertolearn is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with a Freeze Out

    Thanks for the advice TheDuke

    B7.5=Babe 7.5 (not hot babe)

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    Default Re: Need help with a Freeze Out

    The problem is you escalated hard but not hard enough. Because you didn't close, her ASD (anti-slut defense) is now in high gear. She's not going to be your friend either way and the solution to making sure she's not your friend is escalating next time you are alone in a sex location and closing.

    As for freeze out, that's cool. If she responds with a statement that warrants a response, respond but don't go out of your way to text her until it's been a few days minimum. So, when she says Hey, I'd likely text "Hey" back. It depends specifically on the girl's behavior but that's my default. If I know that texting hey back will validate her too much, I'll ignore it until she double texts.

    Good luck!

    And that age gap is nothing, btw. 2 years?? Not a big deal
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