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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    Lay low for a little while. You have the meet up set, you don't need to constantly be talking to her. BTW, never send 3 messages to a girl ever again. It comes off as super needy like you're vying for her attention. I wouldn't even double text unless I had too.
    What do you mean 3 messages? Never heard of this one. I know about sometimes doing rapid fire text and then stopping at a certain point.

    And yeah, I generally know about the don't double text rule lol.

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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Sending 3 consecutive text messages to her without a response in the SAME thread conveys that you are needy and that's not what you want to be doing.

    If you don't get a response to your text you should wait a day or so and then text her something totally unrelated to the last thread topic.

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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Dave's right.

    You're still in a great position, though. Just lay low, and text her Saturday morning to confirm the meet. You can even maybe be playful and be like "The time has been upped to 11:38 am, see you there! :P."
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Wait 2 weeks unless you will see her in person sooner to text. Calm down on the game-iness. You actually gamed your way out of possibly meeting with her. Once you agree on the meet up, meet up. No more banter. It will usually only hurt you to keep bantering
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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    Wait 2 weeks unless you will see her in person sooner to text. Calm down on the game-iness. You actually gamed your way out of possibly meeting with her. Once you agree on the meet up, meet up. No more banter. It will usually only hurt you to keep bantering
    Well, will see. Won't text her today (unless she does), but will tomorrow morning to see if she'll be coming.

    After the study session is over, would it be alright to invite her to lunch afterwards? I kinda don't want to do too much in the library while we're trying to study for the final. I want to game her at lunch if possible : P

    Finals are next week, and her last one is next Wednesday. Mine's on Thursday. If all goes well, I might arrange another date next Friday or Saturday depending on how her schedule falls.

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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Make the lunch a "spontaneous" event, don't invite her beforehand, UNLESS you had plans of already going for lunch afterwards.

    I would play it like this:

    *after studying for awhile*

    Man, it's getting kind of hard to concentrate. This law book is actually starting to look rather delicious. Let's take a minor break, and go grab something quick to eat.

    Your mind frame: You are not inviting her to lunch. You are going to lunch and she's coming with you.

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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    This is why I love this forum, great advice..listing.

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    Default Re: Invited girl over to my study group session this Saturday

    Well, I ended up not going because of the horrendous weather today, and because two of my friends ended having other obligations. I sent my crush a text at around 10:30 asking if she still going (although I figured she probably wouldn't come with this weather), and she texted me at around 2:45 saying that she had just woke up (I made a joke saying that she must have partied hard the other night and she laughed) and wondered if I still went, I said no for the reasons I just mentioned.

    Today was really the only time to meet her before finals cause I'm busy the next few days. Monday I'd do, but I'm booked with math workshops almost all day (even though I finish at 5 PM, I want to get home soon after I'm done to study), and Tuesday is my math final, which I want to study for all day (it's going to be a hard exam..ugh). I was wondering if any of you think it'd be a good idea to text her asking if she has Skype, so me and her could still study and communicate that way. Not the same as in person, but better than nothing. I could then still invite her to lunch or something when we both conclude our final exams next week.

    Or I'm even thinking of texting her asking her out to lunch next week (sometime Friday or Saturday). Her last final is on Wednesday (which is the one we're studying for), and mine's on Thursday.


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