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Thread: At the risk of alienating I still ask what you guys think..

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    Default At the risk of alienating I still ask what you guys think..

    Hey Guys,I know some of you probably dont agree with me and in the end this is my decision to make, but curious to see if other guys wrestle with this or have.I have a LTR. Been with her for 2 years. I am alittle bored. Lately Ive picked up some random girls and f*cked them at my place.I dont wanna hurt my gf. I care about her, but Ive been getting bored, I also see myself getting old and it bugs me that i havent mastered pick-up. this may be my last chance as Im 31.My gf is good for me. she keeps me stable, has a good job and helps support me. I have a good job but am horrible with money.the girls ive farked lately are 20 or 21, poor, no cars, but free-spirited with killer bodies....i dont want to lose something thats better for me (LTR with a future) for girls that arent going anywhere with their lives for awhile...can anyone relate?
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    Default Re: At the risk of alienating I still ask what you guys think..

    I don't exactly relate but I've been to the point where I was dating a girl for a long time, we agreed to be exclusive but we never labeled things as a relationship. Over time, I started to get bored with her and started to talk to other girls, ended up sleeping with a few girls that I met just for some excitement. The girl I was dating was so sweet but just boring. She started to get pretty suspicious of things and even asked me multiple times if I was seeing anyone else. I always denied it and she never found out. I ended up breaking it off with her maybe 2 months later.

    If I could go back, I would change my decisions. Sleeping around when you have a LTR is just messed up. Sure, it adds some excitement but its wrong when you have a commitment to someone else. With that being said, I'd either do one of two things:

    1) Break it off with ur current girl.
    2) Stop sleeping with other girls and start doing more exciting things with your girl.

    I'd lean toward 2 as your description of her sounds like you care about her a lot and she's important to you. Never fall into a routine with a girl... by this I mean where you do the same thing every week, same day, same boring sex in the same place, etc. You get the point. Start being more adventurous. Maybe bring up her thoughts on a threesome? Have sex in more public places. Go on more exciting dates. There are plenty of things you guys can do to spice up a relationship thats going cold. Even google it. Google "how to add excitement to a relationship".

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    Default Re: At the risk of alienating I still ask what you guys think..

    Honestly, from the sounds of things you and your GF are both dragging each other down in one way or another. I'd break it off. You're not going to be happy with her and I'm willing to bet she's not happy with you.

    Man up and move on. What you're doing to her isn't fair, and if you're doing it to her, there's a good chance she's doing it to you as well.
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