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Thread: Chick got angry at a tease

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    Default Chick got angry at a tease

    So I'm rather new to the game but I'm pretty good at teasing women. So I often tease this girl about her face/figure and she takes it in a joking manner. This time I said something about her looking like a child. She got defensive bringing up that I called her skinny etc before. I tried to dismiss it with a joke saying 'Haha getting a little emotional are we?' (WAS THIS A GOOD MOVE?) and she said I was always scrutinising something about her appearance. I told her to chill in a joking manner and she apologised saying she was tired. Is this because of her being in an odd mood or should I ease up on the teasing because she's insecure? It does get a little mean sometimes..

    Your thoughts please..

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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    Could be just the time of the month, but me my self I tease but when I realize that when I take it to far I either just slow down if the girl doesn't get mad or if the girl do get mad I just say sorry I'm just trying to have a good time. But calling someone a child shouldn't be too far so I guess she had a bad day. Just ignore it buddy.
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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Could be just the time of the month, but me my self I tease but when I realize that when I take it to far I either just slow down if the girl doesn't get mad or if the girl do get mad I just say sorry I'm just trying to have a good time. But calling someone a child shouldn't be too far so I guess she had a bad day. Just ignore it buddy.
    This is BULLSHIT. If you ever use the "it's that time of the month" excuse, you're a poor excuse of a PUA. Honestly, that shit borders on extremely sexist and is often just used as an excuse for poor behavior on the part of the male. A true PUA controls the situation and takes responsibility for his fuck ups. He's not going to start blaming it on PMS or any other bullshit for that matter.

    AND to add to this whole thing, there are studies that suggest PMS isn't very closely correlated with mood swings. Again, suggesting that it is likely just males using it as an excuse.

    In actuality, the cause of her issues are the fact that you don't know the difference between teasing someone and insulting them. One key to teasing people is to make fun of things that aren't innate (i.e., choices they make, not things they can't change). Making fun of a woman's appearance is almost always a big N-O, unless you're making fun of it in an endearing way (e.g., "Aww, you're so cute when you scrunch your face up with that frown!"). Otherwise, don't make fun of women's appearance because it's insulting.

    Subjects that are on the teasing side of the line include things like clothing, makeup, shoes, hairstyles, etc. But I want to reiterate, don't make fun of innate qualities unless you're making it clear that you find those qualities endearing. And even if you do make it clear that they are endearing, you should still go easy on how often you bring it up.

    But please, don't ever use the PMS excuse. You're better than that!
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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    Look, I'm not saying it as a sexist point of view. We all have that time of the month where we always are grumpy and shit you know that. Male hormone changes last for a couple of years straight(the teen years) but females have a couple days a month with hormone changes. I'm just saying he might have been at the wrong place at the wrong time. But I have to admit its my fauly that I did not ask the question of how you teased her. If you insulted her that's the main reason. But if you teased her and you didnt get it carried away you should not worry about it and just keep on gaming. One day you will get it right. And duke, I understand your point thanks for pointing it out. I try not to PMS but I guess I just replied without really thinking about it
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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    TheDuke has given fantastic feedback. Never pick out something about her appearance she can't fix.

    If they think you are being judgmental, they will not respond well,

    Just means you need to practice more.
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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    Practice is that we all do.

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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    Thanks guys, this chick is mere practice. Will learn from this!

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    Default Re: Chick got angry at a tease

    The duke is right on.
    You don't tease or neg girls on there weight, or something they can't change. If you're trying to neg them about something don't. Cody wrote an amazing thread on why negs suck look at it.


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