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Thread: My strategy works for shallow dates, but what about the real thing?

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    Default My strategy works for shallow dates, but what about the real thing?

    I have found some serious success in landing women, usually younger, simply because of my career. Using what is given to me on these forums, I have their attention. Then, my career comes up and I am pretty secure in getting some action. But, my two problems are, I don't want to always lean on my career to land some ass, and I'll never find a true relationship based on such shallow foundations. I'm simply not sure what to do.

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    Default Re: My strategy works for shallow dates, but what about the real thing?

    Focus a bit more on the rapport stage. Search for "rapport" and "deep rapport." You're likely just building a lot of attraction and not moving into rapport as much. Alternatively, you're dating younger women, which typically means they aren't as interesting and don't have as much life experience to draw on.
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    Default Re: My strategy works for shallow dates, but what about the real thing?

    It's not necessarily bad to leverage your job if that is part of your identity. Just stay off the topic of work. My job used to impede my success with women. I also never wanted to lie about what I did, so instead I learned to break rapport and joke about doing something else. "Me? I'm a bum." "I'm homeless." etc. If she asks again, be honest, but just learn to switch conversation from occupation if you don't want to go with that.
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    Default Re: My strategy works for shallow dates, but what about the real thing?

    So with a username like filmdad Im guessing you're in movies lol???

    Treat every girl as having potential. Don't be so quick to sleep with every one of them. Usually, a guy will Fclose because he thinks that is the natural progression of the relationship. But if you're looking for someone with a personality, you should wait until you find out more about them before you sleep with them. Because it will keep your head clear. Sleeping with them too soon decreases their value in your eyes. Like because they sleep with you quickly, you don't think they are your type. So hold off on the sex part with some girls. Then when you find one is awesome, the sex will be much better.

    And there is much truth to what duke says
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