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Thread: Ex boyfriend hanging around HB6... what to do?

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    Default Ex boyfriend hanging around HB6... what to do?

    So I've paid attention to what you guys have told me so far and have set a date to meet the HB6 at her place the day after boxing day. Pretty sure I've got a solid F close lined up by the way she is talking as long as I don't balls it up somehow.


    The only thing I'm really dubious about is an ex boyfriend that seems to be sniffing around a lot and think he could be a problem. She's told me that they did date for a few weeks about a year ago but it didn't go well and now they're just friends. This guy sounds like an even bigger AFC than me, running her around in his car. Going round for a cup of tea and spending hours there.

    I'd like to think I'm not that insecure but, the last thing I want is this chump throwing a spanner in my works... What can I do, if anything?

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    Default Re: Ex boyfriend hanging around HB6... what to do?

    Well she through me a bone about the ex so I used Xavier's boyfriend destroyer technique as she told me how needy he was among other things....

    Knowing my luck the wrong thing to do, but it seems to have worked well.... she threw me a sh1t test though, asked me if the reason I understood so well was because I'd been like that with women.

    I just replied something stupid like "super needy jealous guy, reporting for duty ma'am" she called me a sarcastic git, and the conversation moved swiftly on.... is this good?

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    Default Re: Ex boyfriend hanging around HB6... what to do?

    I think you responded to her sh!t test well. I always like to do something like that. You throw what she says to you right back at her. You shouldn't be worried about this guy at all. I don't think the BF destroyer was even necessary. He is no threat.

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    Default Re: Ex boyfriend hanging around HB6... what to do?

    You did fine. Just ignore it from here on out. Honestly, it doesn't matter because you're not intimidated by him and he's a chump. If it gets to the point where you start a LTR with her and this chump is still hanging around, then you call her out on it and deal with that shit.
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