So I've paid attention to what you guys have told me so far and have set a date to meet the HB6 at her place the day after boxing day. Pretty sure I've got a solid F close lined up by the way she is talking as long as I don't balls it up somehow.
The only thing I'm really dubious about is an ex boyfriend that seems to be sniffing around a lot and think he could be a problem. She's told me that they did date for a few weeks about a year ago but it didn't go well and now they're just friends. This guy sounds like an even bigger AFC than me, running her around in his car. Going round for a cup of tea and spending hours there.
I'd like to think I'm not that insecure but, the last thing I want is this chump throwing a spanner in my works... What can I do, if anything?