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Thread: Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

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    Default Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

    So there is this girl that is a class mate of mine.
    We've been hanging out quite a bit after class to grab a bite or drinks. Hangout on weekends etc. Have a great time.. Very good chemistry (her words)
    Whenever I txt 95% of the time she responds back within 5 mins. ( I run normal txt game rules ... staggered response time ... breaking repore first etc)


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    After drinks one time she invited me to her place for coffee...
    I accepted... we were chilling for a bit then I began increasing kino... Then made my move... she turned her head away ...saying "but you have a girlfriend" (which i said simply to appear off the market and disqualify myself some time prior)

    Since then we have hungout alot more

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    We were coming from a party , I was just walking with her with the assumption that we were headed 2 her spot ... she stopped at my car and began to say goodnight, I response that I was going to chill in my car for a bit b4 i started driver...she offered to keep my company.

    we talked for a lil over an hour, things went from her asking me for advance on howto game other guys (specifically a guy at the party) to her saying that she feels on the same level as me yatta yatta good chemistry and that she also talks to her mom about me..

    while were talking ..she said something that stuck with me... she mentioned she likes playing with other guys that are easier... she stated i was hard.. that I was too strong.

    i mentioned it was getting late. she gave me a hug and damn near squeezed the life out of me. i tried to advance but because of how i was sitting managed to kiss her on the cheek and she reciprocated with some kinda of euro - italiano near cheek kiss shit lol

    additional info... our school tends to have far more guys then girls.... but they are nerdy creep dudes too. so not to toot my own horn but im rare shit here. there is an endless supply of male attention imo at this place though

    so my question is
    -what is her intent...
    -im primarily looking for friends with benefits with her.. how should i proceed.

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    Default Re: Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

    Sounds like your average girl to me. Every one likes a challenege, that doesn't make her a pua.

    Sounds to me like she likes you. Now you're going to want to ramp up the escalation. You want to do things like hold her hand, touch her hair, etc, and eventually get the make out. Your purpose is to turn her on so much that she's willing to go all the way with you. To get a FWB, avoid relationship talk about the two of you.

    Personally I'm a firm believer of not misleading with my intentions. If I sleep with a girl, and I'm not seeking a relationship, she'll know that bbeforehand. I kept this very general, but if you have anymore questions just ask.

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    Default Re: Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

    Sleep with her then worry about defining relationship as it comes up. No need to start worrying about things that aren't even an issue. Most PUAs fail because of overthinking.

    Did you ever clarify you do not have a girlfriend?

    I would not recommend talking any more PUA stuff to her. Also, how to game guys is completely different from gaming girls.

    50% of gaming guys is go to the gym. 25% is appear slutty and give out your number to everyone. Last 25% is not put out
    The Official Tinder Playbook--> http://conquerdatingapps.co m <--Stop swiping, start hooking up

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    Default Re: Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

    I go the same route as cdharders. I sleep with the girl first then tell her my intentions. I've had FWB in the past that blew up because the girl would bring up relationship talk and I would say I just wanted to be friends with her. I did not tell her I was seeing other women. When they found out they hated my guts. Now I tell them right away that Im going to be sleeping with other women.

    Example: I have a current FWB we will call Rachel. After hooking up with Rachel for the first time I told her "I don't want a relationship with you. I just want to fark. I'm going to be sleeping with other women." After talking for a bit she tells me "well we aren't only going to hook up, sometimes we will just hang out." To which I said "I like spending time with you, but If we aren't hooking up I'm not hanging out with you." Very direct and very simple. She knows exactly what I expect out of the relationship. When she tries to tell me her problems or whatever I tell her the truth "I don't care Rachel". If she gets offended I tell her I'm kidding then I get a serious look on my face, look her straight in the eye and say "actually I'm not". I can thank David X for that line!

    See the congruency and straightforwardness here? There's no if's and's or but's here. I have found that is a MUST with FWB to keep it like it is. Otherwise, in my experience, the girl falls for me and gets heartbroken. Nobody benefits in that scenario. So if a FWB is what you want, make sure you spell that out with her immediately after you hook up.

    On a side note: Tell her you no longer have a gf and make your move dude! This girl is definitely into you!

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    Default Re: Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

    I've told her a couple times that I'm "broken up" and still the same (slightly better) response.

    My reasoning thinking that shes a female PUA is because shes mentioned a few times about how she was a late bloomer in high school and into college .. then realized the influence she could have over guys. This has come up a few times in our talks about the game. Since creating this thread I haven't talked about pua stuff anymore.

    Shes been very receptive to kino, and very touchy feely, but whenever things are about to get a bit more intimate/isolated between the 2 of us. She changes gears and either "has to get up early" or some other bs lol.

    We have been hanging out quite a bit, and have plans tonight... However I think I've been flooding the market a bit and need to create a scarcity to dhv. I'm going to cancel on tonight and prob wont see her until after the holidays.

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    Default Re: Pretty sure I'm dealing with a Female pua.. advice?

    She sounds just like an average girl. She's probably just now realizing the influence she can have on guys by being cute. Whatever.
    Game her the same you would any other chick. She likes you. Everybody liked a challenge, she doesn't mean it when she says she likes "easy" guys,


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