Re: Messed up in a club with new girl - what next?
Aww dude sorry this happened. Don't regret it though never regret it. However you have successfully put yourself in the Dog House. Essentially meaning "No Man's Land" where you are pissed at her and she is pissed at you. I hate going here as this is usually I auto-reject a girl when she rejects me so after that I throw in the towel.
I think you should throw in the towel but yeah you shouldn't have rejected her like that saying "Okay bye" all rude cuz underneath you rejected her which you could have flirted with her and got her to come around as in go home with her.
But instead it played out the way she predicted. But yeah in the future Kino is a very special skill. In essence? You approached her wrong. Your game was off. The way you described "I took her hand" sounds extremely needy and was probably a pretty validation hungry vibe you were putting off in essence you were not confident and made it a "thing" to grab her hand. Everytime you make Kino the focus it becomes uncomfortable for them.
So next time never ever focus on the Kino. Just go up run your routines, spit out a few words and let your body language mimic hers along with naturally based on calibration and positive feedback putting the kino moves on her but only natural through the seduction not making it a focal point. Every time you do that they gladly return the favor but you made it like holding her hand was the goal.
For instance one time in the Club one night when my game was on point I was walking down the stairs and I see an HB who just walked in a solid 9. Gosh she was looking freaking amazing, 3 Set. I looked at her with eyes of determination "What's going on?!!" "Where's the DJ at?" Obviously this was a false question but I played along and immediately grabbed her hand without looking feeling confidence bursting at the seems. She felt it. "This is FUN!" she said as I lead her to the dancefloor. I showed her the DJ but knew something was up so we stood there for a second. I said "let's grab a drink" this was a mini-bounce compliance test to get her number and I immediately grabbed her hand and walked her across the Club. Got her a drink (granted it was lame but I had no other technique to think of and just winged it) and her number in the process. Granted I need to be a better texter and better closer but I am working on that.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.