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    youngpadawan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default the silent treatment mystery

    been learning a lot from the regular sections from the forums but since the material i've learnt works on most girls but not this, i need expert help please!

    so i've been trying to work this girl for awhile now (shes what i would call conservative). each time i text something from what i can only deduce is too flirty or forward like ''we're not even married and u're already thinking of ways to lighten my wallet '' or ''come out to dinner with me and prove it! (i teased her about me being funnier and she said she was funny too and that 'didnt need to prove it lol') i get no response. but after each silent spell she gets more comfortable with me (increasingly longer and animated responses) and she keeps telling me how funny i am when i tease and joke with her, i cant tell whats going on! she doesnt seem like the type to play mind games, nor does the way she continues to interact more and more with me and the way she becomes more receptive to me gently increasing the dosage of flirting signal any sort of disinterest that i can perceive. i've gotten her out for coffee on campus a couple times but when i suggest something more like dinner or going out , silence. whats going on and how to handle it??

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    Default Re: the silent treatment mystery

    Maybe something like dinner or a date seems like a big deal to her and she's a bit nervous. If she already seems pretty comfortable with you then you're doing something right. Now I assume that when you ask her to dinner you're texting her as opposed to asking her in person, which is fine, but it will be difficult for her to not reply to you if you ask her next time you're getting coffee or frozen yogurt or whatever. If she makes an excuse and flakes then ask her one or two more times and if the flaking persists then drop it. However, she could be one those girls who is completely immune to your charm and sees you more as a total bro than a guy friend or someone who she would date. Try it out and see.

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    Default Re: the silent treatment mystery

    Sounds like things are too formal. And I've definitely been with shy girls who are super nervous about opening up. Be very careful about teasing too hard on them!! Good luck
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