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Thread: Girl Says Im Too Intense.....

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    Default Re: Girl Says Im Too Intense.....

    Considering that you are moving backwards with this girl, the 20 texts incident basically put you into bad standing, and you continuously ask questions pertaining to her, I not only think it's a bad idea to continue pursuing her, I also think you need to move on.

    It's never healthy to be so attached to a girl that you send her a massive amount of messages and become incredibly overbearing. It's also not a very good sign that you have to keep moving backwards with this girl, in every case I honestly think that things aren't going to work with her anyways. Oneitis is a game killer, it can make you appear needy, and it can make you appear needy. In this case, all three became very evident and very strong.

    So, let's recap everything that you did wrong to basically flunk out on this woman:

    1. You failed to understand the mechanics of how and when to text.
    2. You failed to take her problems into consideration.
    3. You failed to understand how the attraction process works.
    4. You do not understand when or how you should stand up for your own belief system.


    Reading your posts, and trying to work through them, I can see that there is A TON of stuff you need to work on. Fortunately, nothing works better for improving your game than some studying and hard work. Here is a list of books and resources that you NEED to read, learn, implement, and repeat:



    The last one is in pertinence to your ability to communicate. If you want to be successful with anyone, whether it be a man or a woman, you have to know the key to proper communication. That last book will teach you how to do so.

    Other than that, please read, and please learn. If you have any questions about what you have read, feel free to whip them back out to the forums. The veterans are always here to help you.
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    Default Re: Girl Says Im Too Intense.....

    thanks but i should have noted that all the text happen a couple of months (9 months ago) we just started back being buddy-buddy so far aso good, i dont hound her really after making that mistake.

    i've been doing what you say do and its working. it may take awhile before we get to the point where we trump tight again.

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    Default Re: Girl Says Im Too Intense.....

    peace man things are looking okay between us, seems like she is coming around. and i have stop being so intense and insecure if you will. just friends for now.


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