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    Default Re: Online help

    Well, how does your profile look? In addition, give us some of the openers that you are using on these girls, both in pertinence to their profile and just funny in general.
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    well i posted my "about me" on my last post, so thats that. im gona look at my messages and post some in a second.

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    Default Re: Online help

    One girl mentioned that she doesnt judge people on looks but when it comes to dating, physical attraction matters for her. I sent a message saying "couldnt agree more with you on physical attraction. thats attractive!"

    Another girl was a michigan fan and im an Ohio State fan and i jus sent a message saying "OSU > Michigan :P" just to get a little competitiveness going, i guess. looking at theses msgs now, they all kinda look a little dumb

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    Umm, yeah, those are really dumb. Go to the guide that I posted and read through it. That will give you the proper understanding on how to make a good profile and how to send messages.
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    Default Re: Online help

    Quote Originally Posted by benchase22 View Post
    And i jus dont message random girls, i make sure they are a girl who gets on often enough to notice she has messages.
    Are you on a dating site, or are you doing this on Facebook? Big difference.

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    It's plenty of fish. I don't go for girls on facebook. I might try it now after reading swagman`s guide

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    Facebook, Plenty of Fish, OKCupid, it doesn't matter what you're talking about. The same rules apply for profile and messaging. The only difference is the context of each one. Facebook is social, while the dating sites are dating.

    As I believe I point out in my guide, Facebook is tougher than a dating site because people don't go on there for dating. Nonetheless, sending that first message and starting a conversation remain the same.
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    I've gotten numbers on POF with just an opener. I think I could try that on FB 1000 times without it ever working.

    FB also gives you the challenge of instant messaging, you have to be quicker in some instances. You don't get that variable on POF.

    Lastly I feel like you have to dig yourself out of a hole right off the bat on Facebook. No matter how you open, you start out as the weird guy who messaged a random girl on Facebook. On POF or any dating site, it's expected.. No digging required.

    I've had little success messaging girls on Facebook. I can get convos going but they seem to fizzle out.. And my profile is extremely solid. POF I can do with my eyes closed!

    Maybe it's just me. Sigh.

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    i messaged a girl today on "plenty of fish". Her profile name was something like "buckeyebabe". she mentioned things about loving college football and shes the biggest fan of the ohio state buckeyes. it says she also attended some "some university" for her education, and i figured she might have attended OSU. so i opened with "what university did you attend some of? even though i already have an idea!". she replied back with a smile face. then i was just bein funny and replied with "what school does that symbol represent?" she replied back with " X-university". Then i just said "nice, so whats up". she said she just got done working out, and she lives in my area so i askded what gym and she answered. we then bullshitted and cracked jokes about the gym and working out for a lil bit. i figured weve been talking way too long on this site, especially about one topic. so i said "ok (name), im not usually on here this long, and i have to go with my friends to the movie theatre to try out anchorman 2. text me sometime, but not while im at the movie theatre! xxx-xxx-xxxx. ttyl". i dont usually leave my number but one of you guys responding to this said you do it, so i did. she never replied back on whether or not she would txt me, is that a bad thing? im not expecting a txt right away, jus wondering if she will since she never replied back.

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    Default Re: Online help

    What I said was to offer your number to her, not actually give it. Just say something that puts the thought of her having your number in her mind and make her want it.

    Try something like "I'm not usually one to go back and forth on here this long, also I'm off to see Anchorman 2. We can text if you like, but not while I'm in the theatre!"

    She would likely respond to that asking for your number, or even just give you hers. Don't try too hard.. Remember that she's on a dating site and that she wants to give out her number, but she's not going to give it to just anyone. Always be asking yourself what the AFC would say in the next message, then say something different and better.


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