Re: Recovery Help!!
I respect twenty-nine a lot, in this conversation, I have to disagree.
I've had a lot of experience with Tinder because I worked at night clubs and started flirting with girls to come to the club and use my name, so I'd get paid.
I use "lol" in almost every message to keep things light and playful. I tend to get the number in about 5 to 10 messages, the quickest being on my first reply. I agree, questions aren't amazing, but I use question marks to prompt response.
The common problem I see in this message as well as most newbies with messaging is that there is too much qualification on your end in an effort to make her laugh, which eventually shows lack of confidence because she starts to think "Why's he keep saying long-winded corny jokes?"
Less jokes, more logistics is my suggestion. Learn to text girl. I text almost identically to how girls text in order to build rapport. There's other ways to get to know someone rather than surface level conversation. By matching how they talk, I save myself TONS of time messaging.
As for what you do now?
Wait a week if she doesn't respond and ping her. "How's the holidays ?" Message a few times, then end it before she does by not responding to a message she sends that doesn't necessarily prompt a response. That's to keep things going until you can see her.
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