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Thread: Need damage assessment ASAP

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    I accidentally sent a message to a girl meant for a friend. In the message I said," I think I'm catching the feels for Megan." It's true that I am starting to have feeling and I only sent it because I was worried i was getting to emotionally invested too quickly. Please guys what do I do here?

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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    Did you send it to Megan? If so then bravo. If not, no big deal. Just tell her it wasn't meant for her to receive.

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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    Please clarify whether you sent the message to the girl in question, or just some other random girl. It obviously makes a huge difference.

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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    You're done own up to it. If you fail this one you are done for good. All or nothing. Love these moments I call them clutch moments. In fact you are in a very advantageous position as you can build a lot of material or at least I could from this blooper. Women weigh heavily on your insecurities and for some reason as we say "be outcome independent" is so true and important. My visionary plan for texting next Summer is to screw with girl's heads. Before I was very needy when I tried to make them laugh but now that my skills are getting good money is holding me back not skill.

    So don't play on your insecurities play on her's. Ask her what she thinks of your text to further screw with her head and use it as a bargaining chip of validation for her. Don't seek her validation when you freely gave validation so wing it and make her seek your approval now. You pulled her in now push her away a simple "so you like me how do you know I feel the same way?" Make a joke out of it and blame her. Tell her it's her fault you like her and she'll love it but tell her sorry I didn't mean to send you that last text is going to make her hate your guts.
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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    Yes I sent it to Megan and thanks for the help cuz I was freakin out at first

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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    Not much damage... You said you think u are catching feelings. U didn't say you're in love with her.

    Own up to it if she asks or brings it up in person. But be of the mind (and openly express to her) that she seems cool and has a great (name a physical part of her body) but you have been down that road before.

    Tell her you're not sure if.there is more to her than that. And you're curious. That's all. Curious. Get across that she has a chance at the moment... That she has made you curious (and tease her about it. Like she's trying to make you like her. That she is sneaky lol).

    Then game as normal. My method here is basic push pull.
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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    It's absolutely not a wash at this point. Showing a lot of interest doesn't have to break the bank, as some people might think. Do what LockDown said (I find myself saying that a lot lately).

    I really have nothing else to add.

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    Default Re: Need damage assessment ASAP

    I agree with two nine. Showing allot of interest is not a bad thing. I used to think that way, but I have changed my thought's on that recently with great success. The key with showing heavy interest is having the mindset that your very valuable and that she is lucky to be the recipient of that interest.

    Your fine. No need for damage control. I see no issues with showing straightforward interest in a woman.

    Did she respond to your text?


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