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    Default Girl likes me but she has a boyfriend!

    Hi guys, so this girl is a classmate, she sits in front of me, and always likes to turn around and look at me, for example when the teacher asks me a question, I know there is nothing especial with that but she also smiles and laugh and stuff like that (and I'm not that funny) she also talks with my friend on my side but my friend isn't attractive at all so I guess she wants my attention but she is shy too, because rarely talks to me and when she does she looks nervous, basically she likes me but she has a bf so end of history?

    I am a 19 year old skinny guy with a pretty face... a lot of girls look at me but I am shy and never know what to do, I appreciate any answer, thanks and sorry for poor english

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    Default Re: Girl likes me but she has a boyfriend!

    I'm sorry to burst your bubble, my friend, but you are reading into this far too much. The fact she turns around and smiles at you and laughs sometimes is not significant enough to consider that she likes you. She's just being energetic and outgoing. End of story.

    As for your shyness, it's all a matter of taking that first step to interact with people. If you never make the first move, then you will never get better.
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    Default Re: Girl likes me but she has a boyfriend!

    Hi Swagman, you are right, I'll try to get rid of my shyness... thanks for your time.

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    Default Re: Girl likes me but she has a boyfriend!

    Swagman you could be right....could. BUT women laughing at stuff you say that no one else finds funny is a big IOI. I've also spent like 7 years in college (I'm a grad student now) and if a woman sits in front of you and is always turning around to look at you, that's another big IOI. She might even turn around and when you look at her she looks at the clock, but she does this at least 4 times in a class period.

    If your uncertain do this. When you walk into the classroom look at her. If she is giving you eye contact right when you walk in (good sign) give her a big smile. If she gives you a genuine smile back its an IOI. Talk to her. One HUGE thing I've noticed in classroom settings is this: If you have a good conversation with a girl for the first time, if she's interested in you, the next time she comes to class she will be dressed up (HUGE IOI). This IOI has never failed me, never. Talk to her and flirt with her. If she comes to class the next class period wearing more makeup than normal, and nicer clothes than normal, she's totally into you.

    The BF thing. Your 19 so I would suspect your in college. 95 percent of women who enter college with a high school boyfriend break up the first year of college. If the guy does not live in the area it really is no barrier. They will break up eventually. I have witnessed this so many times. I meet girl, she show's heavy interest. She friends me out of the blue on facebook. She has a "serious" boyfriend of a couple years who attends a different college in a different town. Im all like "wtf". I don't escalate even though she clearly likes me. When it finely ends I date the girl and she asks me why I didn't make a move sooner, or she was banging some other guy before she broke up with her current boyfriend and now she's with that guy.

    The thing with the above scenario is this. The woman doesn't have the balls to end it with her guy and she search's for a new one. One of two things happen. Number one: they find a new guy or guys, cheat, and break up with boyfriend. Number two: she doesn't cheat because all these guys that are getting clear signals stop short because she has a bf and her current relationship gets very volatile and it ends on its own.

    I seriously have been in this situation like ten times and it's exactly the same every time.

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    Default Re: Girl likes me but she has a boyfriend!

    I agree with Swagman. A note on boyfriends in general: if you game her well enough, she will never mention she haas a boyfriend. She only mentions it because in some way you were too forward with your interest while she wasn't interested in you. I've been with enough girlfriends and married women to understand that a relationship is just a technicality that good game can get past.

    I don't go for girls in relationships as much any more because it's more drama than it's worth sometimes, but also realize that most relationships will end and there's no reason you shouldn't be the next in line.
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    Default Re: Girl likes me but she has a boyfriend!

    I will agree with you CD that if your doing a good job at creating attraction with a woman who is in a relationship, she will avoid bringing up the bf. However; I've had some women who had bf's tell me they had bf's even though they were clearly into me and wanted to fark. Some women will tell you just so they can unload the responsibility onto you. As all guys that have had success with women know, they do not like taking responsibility for their actions, especially when it's sexual. Hence the famous saying "It just happened" (avoiding responsibility) that women give all the time for hooking up.


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