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Thread: HELP ME PLEASE!!! Need Clarity!!!

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    Default HELP ME PLEASE!!! Need Clarity!!!

    I may have miscalculated my steps as far as attracting a woman online's with text game is concerned.. This is the following discourse between me and her and if it helps to know beforehand, I mailed a funny message to her just before xmas saying I would send her a thoughtful xmas present.. she liked it in response and thought it was real funny.. she also thought it was funny when i said i would send her porn, but i'm not sure if she was throwing me a hint to initiate something with her.. i know she likes rap, comedy and poetry but I was just tryin to show her I can think outside the box too and listen to some rock so i sent her an 18 minute rock song, which was funny to me imo, and this is what happened...

    Idris Willams
    3:48am
    whats a matter? you scared of a 18 minute song? lol

    Jane Doe
    3:49am
    i started to cuss u out for this one

    Idris Willams
    3:49am
    lmaooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooo
    why u gon cuss me out Jane? lmao

    Jane Doe
    3:50a
    u know why

    Idris Willams
    3:51am
    you didnt understand the concept of this video?

    Jane Doe
    3:51am
    i didnt want too

    Idris Willams
    3:53am
    ok well then glad you told me this because I was almost about to write a story that was similar to this.. lol

    Jane Doe
    3:54am
    LOL Ohhh Lawd

    Idris Willams
    3:56am
    note to self: Jane HATES classic rock and presumably any kind of rock
    well then tell me this, are u into any kind of real classics? like motown, marvin gaye, barry white?

    Jane Doe
    3:58am
    Motown ofcourse..and i do like rock but that shit you tried to get me to watch was just plain boring

    Idris Willams
    4:01am
    lmao
    you gotta listen to it when your high but ok i get what your saying lol
    i dont take you for a weed smoker no way.. its just i used to listen to this back in the day when i first started hittin the midwest bars out in Kansas and Oklahoma.. we bar hoped which ever bar had the most action, we did not discriminate much lol..
    at least now you'll know if you ever see me call someone an "arlo gunthrie lookin fool" you'll know what i'm talkin about lol


    ^I tried to end it off by being funny.. Truth is I don't know if I completely destroyed my confidence or chances at trying to get her attracted to me but I need to know what to do from here on out.. And I was going to send her another poem but I'm not sure she wants me to speak to her right now cause of my bad judgment in what I wanted to give her.. She has told me she enjoys the single life but i know that in some sort of way she likes me just as much as I like her, except that I like her more.. smh what the hell do I do and what kind of thoughtful gift can I give her??? If there are any EXPERTS who have experience in online Text Game can you please help me out? Thanks in advance!!

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    Default Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!! Need Clarity!!!

    You knew what her interests were, and you still decided to send her something that you knew she would not like? That is not a good move. In addition, 18 minutes of something she does not like can be considered incredibly annoying. I certainly would not watch something like that.

    That last string of messages you sent are what really killed your game. Those four messages in a row came off as needy and slightly annoying. In addition, the weed topic was pushing things too far, and implying she was a weed smoker added another nail to the coffin.

    I would recommend waiting a few days before trying to start up another conversation with her. If she still won't talk to you after that, then it would be best to move on.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!! Need Clarity!!!

    I didnt know if she would of liked it or not.. She is into comedy and from what she told me, she was looking for something new, so that's why I sent it to her.. But I didnt think it would be something she would really be that annoyed over..

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    Default Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!! Need Clarity!!!

    Since she is still single at the moment, and not seriously looking for any kind of close 1 on 1 relationship, I usually do stay away from posting something to her every hour of the day.. I have had instances where I have kinda fumbled with her but after a few days, comeback with something funny that builds rapport with her.. I was going to come back and talk to her on Monday.. How do I direct my follow up after this??


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