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    Default URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Hey guys, so this is really throwing me in the loop with one of my spinning plates.

    I met her right before Thanksgiving..Good date

    She flaked twice, then asked me out a week ago.

    We went out, had amazing sex. The next day before I went away for Holidays, she asked me hang out soon.

    5 days later I asked her to hang this Saturday because there's a mixology bar I want to try... we'll get food too. She said "Sounds good, what time." and this is on Thursday night. I reply 7pm

    Then this morning, at 7am I get this text. "Perfect I'll have to be home at 10pm. I promised a friend of mine I would go see the "mitty" movie with her."

    What the hell should I do about that? Sounds like a no sex zone now? Any ideas what's up? Need to reply to her soon. Actually I had reservations for the mixology bar at 8:30 after food so that wouldn't work at all. I could change the plans though to fit her schedule. seems ridiculous

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Hmm..
    Tell her something along the lines of..'well you know what..lets make it another time..'here if you push for it you may sound off in this dyn.

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Thanks. Any other advice out there? Would love to hear from some of the other heavy hitters!

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Leave it as it is, let her go with her friend. Freez out, let her call you. Make another date after she called you.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Sounds familiar, don't stress much about it. Girls are flaky, just let her go see a movie with her friend. Don't become too available, so don't change your reservation or anything like that. Be cool, don't let her know how it affects you.

    You can freeze out - but it depends on many things whether it works or not. If the sex was great for both of you, you had great time, etc. she will probably reinitiate the contact. Wait some time for that, and if that won't happening, start a completely new thread with her, use a cliffhanger txt message, run a text game on her. Or just call her with a completely random thing. Like where can I find the best grocery store in the city center or shits like that. If she react well set up an other date.

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Dude. I don't see the problem here. You already banged her, she agreed to go out with you, but she has other plans later. There's a good chance she forgot about the movie thing and that's why she didn't tell you about it until today. She didn't completely flake on you. Anyways, just tell her you can go out another time if her plans get in the way. I really don't think you need to freeze her out. I see no benefit in that right now. Relax, do your thing, then call her in a week and set something else up.

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Thanks guys.

    Here's what I said: "Hey didnt realize you had plans. Mixology bar reservations are at 8:30. Lets reschedule another night when we aren't rushed. Some friends asked me to join them tonight so no biggie. Have a great time at the movie."

    She immediately responded "Ok that sounds good lets plan for next saturday?"

    I waited 5-7 mins and replied "Sounds good"

    She replied immediately "Perfect! It's a date then have fun tonight!"

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    She replied immediately "Perfect! It's a date then have fun tonight!"
    Avoid reframing like that.she may flake..Again

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    How would you recommend? She was pretty aggtrssive

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    Default Re: URGENT: She Changed the Date

    Text her later in the week giving her a reason you can't come and ask her out again at another time.
    I asked a girl out and was geniunly late.When i got to hers it was deep into the night called her to end it.. i asked her out later and run into a similar hurdle due to scheduling.Reinitiat ed and she ended up at my place..


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