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    Default how can one get over his one-itis girl

    A few months back, i met a girl, HB 8,5 on campus,,, she noticed a few alpha maale characteristics in me nd started giving me a few IOI's...so i decided to get her number,,, she was interested ,,, and would walk me to my bus stop nd stuff.......until she came to my place for a joint...we all need someone to get high n cuddle with right....i was so overwhelmed by how easy this girl was getting attracted to me that i ddnt even touch her that night, we spent four hours nd she kept gvin sexuall hints but i jus ddn get them...i think i hadn prepared for that.

    Since that day, Nothing was the same, she slipped right out of my palm nd started flaking on me, she started seeing me as a wimp to a point where she started calling me 'buddy'.

    Whenever i decide to leave her....to try n create sum mystery..she keeps initiating contact....but when i cum in..she pushes me away again...this has been going on and off for the past months...until i decided im actually done with her.....today she texted me calling me 'buddy'......how do i respond to that?.....or du i jus ignore me.

    I know normal pua wud smash 12 girls to forget about her, but we all have that one girl u missed out on, wev all had that one itis,,,where u feel u just cant lose......any advice on what to do?

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    Default Re: how can one get over his one-itis girl

    Quote Originally Posted by minghus View Post
    i was so overwhelmed by how easy this girl was getting attracted to me that i ddnt even touch her that night, we spent four hours nd she kept gvin sexuall hints but i jus ddn get them...i think i hadn prepared for that.
    Whenever you do something like get high or get drunk, it throws off your game by a considerable degree. That is something that you always need to be conscious about. In addition, you need to be able to recognize IOIs and go in for the kill when you see them. It looks like you had a long-running freeze of approach anxiety because you didn't know what to do.

    Quote Originally Posted by minghus View Post
    Whenever i decide to leave her....to try n create sum mystery..she keeps initiating contact....but when i cum in..she pushes me away again...this has been going on and off for the past months...until i decided im actually done with her.....today she texted me calling me 'buddy'......how do i respond to that?.....or du i jus ignore me.
    When you basically passed off everything she was sending you that night, she either felt like you were stringing her on or you were just not that interested in her. Either way, it's going to result with you getting pushed into the friend zone.

    In addition, the fact this has been going on for several months is not good for you. You can't keep falling into this trap that you keep putting down for yourself. You just have to say "Screw it, I'm going to ignore her" and move on. There's far more fish in the sea.

    Quote Originally Posted by minghus View Post
    I know normal pua wud smash 12 girls to forget about her, but we all have that one girl u missed out on, wev all had that one itis,,,where u feel u just cant lose......any advice on what to do?
    A good number of PUAs have that feeling where they wish they would have done something different with a certain girl. It happens to the best of us. It's a matter of learning from your mistakes and moving on. If you're always focusing on the past and wishing things went different, then you will never learn and progress towards a better future.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: how can one get over his one-itis girl

    You missed a huge shot in some cases it happens faster than that.however its better to give it a fair shot than thinking about her later.so i definately see that.theres nothing wrong with feeling this way but one itis game may be very intense emotionally etc at first but i know you can handle it.
    Here what one may do is establish that you delayed that because you noticed something about her and that it deosnt always happen on that other hand you let go in that regard becos something happened that made you change direction.

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    Default Re: how can one get over his one-itis girl

    Do not qualify to her. Block her from your phone if that's what it takes for you to not be tempted to reach out to her. She called you "buddy." That is not good. Appreciate the signs and move on. You can come back to her later after you've had sex with more girls. In the mean time, if you get friendzoned a lot, I'd make my facebook page full of pics with me and girls. Look like a manwhore, then the HB8.5 will wonder how she missed out, and you can get her back.
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