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    ColombianGuy93 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post what should I say?

    so im texting this girl, I asked her out before and she randomly started texting me. im not sure what to say to get her to be with me so I could use some help. also shes lesbian, so I definitely dont have experience with that.heres the conversation

    "not sure if you remember me, but you probably do"... conceited much? -.-? and what if I dont? o'.'o?
    -_- well you never know. Some people forget about others
    . I dont forget awesome people ;D which, you know, is cool. it prevents me from forgetting myself > so, may I ask the obvious question?
    Hahah, and shoot.
    wells, I dont really remember giving you my phone number, so im guessing you asked our mutual friend for it, so the question would be.. whats up? ^-^?
    I got it from Grimes, well Brandi. But I'm watching Beauty and the Beast. Yourself?
    well im picking up some groceries and making my way back to the house where me and my friend are going to dude it out.games, booze, and my little pony marathon living it up crazy. woooh!
    My little pony. Hahah.
    yeah, whats wrong with that? maybe even throw in afew disney princess movies
    Nothing's wrong, I have Disney movies in my room.
    so lets move my disney princess marathon there then, since youre offering
    I only have two movies :/
    so I out disney'd you? thats something to be proud of, as a man
    I also have the Great Gatsby, Madea, Insideous 2, Pitch Perfect, Sinister and Mama.
    whaaa? ive been wanting to watch the great gatsby and mama! sinister was too scary for me >_>
    Sinister is fucked up.
    exactly why I got scared. the kids being the killers... goodbye, sleep
    It was still good. it was scary, it did its job. if you wanna watch a really scary movie with a good ending you should watch the conjuring. loved it
    Soooooo good.
    not sure if sarcasm or if actually agreeing with me ._.
    No. It really was a good scary movie.
    exactly, chris knows best
    I was gonna go out but I can't leave base without a buddy now.
    you need only ask
    I'm not gonna have you come back to base to leave again.
    im on my way there to get moneys anyways, I dont mind im not doing it for free, youre getting me a drink
    Ehhhh. I'm too lazy now. My room is all warm and cozy
    . ahhhhh its so warm here in this hookah filled place... so nice :3
    But that means I have to go outside.
    too tough for an MA? hehehe
    Yes. I have to deal with the cold for 14 hours every few days.
    so it should be nothing for you now
    I'm too comfy.
    okie
    Sowwy. I have a question.
    whats up? er, shoot*
    Why did you want to ask me on a date?
    because you were so interesting and i could relate with you, but I dont know you on an intellectual level just yet. I wanted to get to know you.
    Ah, okay. why, what were you expecting?
    I was just curious.
    ah, okie
    Yes sir.
    you seem like you wanted a different answer

    and she hasnt responded back. advice?

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    Default Re: what should I say?

    The fact she's a lesbian may make things tough for you, considering sexual preferences is one of the ultimate walls that can separate someone from success and failure. However, like any wall, it can be surpassed in some way.

    The conversation was decent up until you pushed for the meetup. It was far too soon, and all together it was an AFC move. You should always wait after a few days of conversation before pushing for the meetup. You also screwed up in diving into her date question so easily. You basically admitted to asking her out on a date. It would have been a lot better to either pass over the question or playfully deny it.

    If she does not respond today, wait to respond to her again tomorrow. If the conversation drops again like this, then it would be a wise idea to just move on. Either way, you need to flirt more and be more playful. Conversation is a tad bit on the boring side, but nothing is terribly wrong with it besides what I pointed out in the above paragraphs.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    ColombianGuy93 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: what should I say?

    yeah I did screw that one up but somehow she stil invited me to go for a drink.im about to go meet her up at her place, go drink, thrn back to her place. suggestions? my plan of attack is to neg her a bit, ask her for her views on girls, tease her about her preferences a bit, push and pull sequence, then see where the night takes us.


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