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    Default im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    its new years eve and i wish everyone a farking good new year. for me its farkING SUCKS. the crush i have made out with another guy. ITS NOT WHY IM HERE. my life completely sucks i CANT get ANY girl. i farking suck at it i just cant its impossible for me i just cant what the fark am i doing wrong heelp me. im on the edge right now. pleease anyone help me. talk to me call me whatever I NEED HELP. my skype is " martinerikssonswe" i beg u anyone help me

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    You don't need women in your life to be happy man and that should deffinently not be a reason to take your own life.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    Go the Gym, buy video games, buy new clothes, get a spray tan, get a tatt, buy some movies, work a lot, listen to music, go to Church, hook up with chicks, this is what I do. Seriously Church might help you as suicide will just take you to God early and life is worth living at least for me. I'm not good with women either I had a girl make out with another guy at a Club I N-closed and I was crushed but I ain't sitting here crying about it. I'm taking the rest of the year off, guarantee next Summer will be hot may get a GF or an F-close but who cares really? I will be taking my game to the next level next year.

    Getting a spray tan for Summer, a season pass to the Water Park, a Hotel for the Brewfest, Hotels for the Bars & Clubs, getting my first tatt, been buying a lot of clothes I'm saving for Summer. Mystery says this Game is not just for one girl man get over that broad there is so many fine chicks during Summer I am going bonkers. I am going to try again with the Cocktail Waitress next year at the Club cuz a long brake will make her forget. Just stop being a little turkey and open your eyes to the glory of Summer women. Can't wait for next year. I ain't going out in the freezing cold to pick up chicks screw that I am so done Summer is my new love putting all my efforts there so yes I'll be working smarter not harder. I get whooped every day in COD: Ghosts and it is extremely depressing but I stopped worrying about stupid factors and just go to town. My KDR is 1.025 now that is not worth living for but just enjoy life man and get out there next Summer it's too much fun to want to leave.
    101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    First things first. CALM THE FUCK DOWN.

    Now we shall skype and have a discussion. You need to relax though, and understand that women are not a priority. You are the priority and before you can even think about getting anyone, you need to first come to love yourself.

    Add me on skype and we'll talk during the New Year:

    lilsting7

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    Ok. Question.

    if women arent a "priority" or we dont need them to "succeed"

    How come its better to be dead then to not understand them or be good at pick-up?

    How come we have a whole community based around picking up women.

    These statements are kind of contradictory? To me being better with women is a HUGE goal of mine. Please explain.
    "I came, I saw, I conquered"- Julius Ceasar

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    Ok. Question.

    if women arent a "priority" or we dont need them to "succeed"

    How come its better to be dead then to not understand them or be good at pick-up?

    How come we have a whole community based around picking up women.

    These statements are kind of contradictory? To me being better with women is a HUGE goal of mine. Please explain.
    Yes you don't specifically need women to live a good life. But we WANT women and WANTING is a powerful aspect. We feel strong and better as we get what we want in life.

    Humans differentiate themselves by chasing what they want in life. Other living beings don't do that. They'll live a happy life just by satisfying their simple needs, like food and shelter. But us humans and especially men are never satisfied with only having their needs provided.

    We, men chase what we want in order to be happy. And for most men, this 'want' is women. But sadly, the society robbed our abilities away which let us to communicate with women healthily, so these PU communities are created in order to make men get better with women.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    Take it from me, suicide is not the answer and this is coming from a person who wouldn't be writing this right now if I didn't take action 2 years ago. I was 24, virgin, couldn't talk or keep a conversation with any chick that was average or above. Anxiety attacks when I walk down the street because I was extremely self conscious. Had a negative attitude towards myself where I criticised every inch of my body.


    I was a walking time bomb. I'm good at hiding my emotions and state so my friends and family were non the wiser. It got to a point where I started searching online for ways to end it all. Instead, I found ways to change myself. I was thinking negatively because that's the easiest to concentrate on. I decided to focus on the positive.

    I never made friends because I was too shy to talk but people always gravitated towards me. I had that approachable personality. I'm also funny and quick witted. Always made people smile. I never judged anybody before I could get to know them. Everybody were equal to me unless they gave me a reason to hate them.


    I concentrated on my positives and started to love myself. I couldn't smile or laugh with an open mouth before because I have 2 large bugs bunny teeth but now I walk with my mouth open because I no longer care. I went to the gym and started working out. Working out scientifically releases good hormones. It destroys the negativity in you. The best thing you can do is get out as soon as possible and go for a good run. Start doing it on a daily basis and next step is to start weightlifting.

    You will not only feel good about yourself but will look good too. You want to be a ball of positive energy in social scenarios. You don't want to be that one depressed guy at a party. Women pick up on that quicker than you could hate yourself.


    It's been 2 years since my suicide thoughts. I only discovered PUA about 4 months ago and started taking active interest about 3 months ago. Even though I was growing comfortable with the skin I live in, I was still crap with women. These last 2 months of PUA helped me great and I'm still learning. I went from a clueless moron to a flirting machine at work. When I sit in the staff lounge at work, most of the girls just get up and move to my table. They love that happy and smiling energy I radiate.


    I make them laugh; I genuinely listen to them and their problems if they have any; I flirt with them; I kino whenever I can; If I notice any change in their mood then I comment on it and uncover it. I feel like a shepherd attending his flock. At the Christmas party a few weeks back I ended up dancing and grinding on most of the female staff member at the party (HB 7 to 9s)including an assistant manager. One of the girls grabbed me outside and whispered "I wanna fark you so bad right now". It didn't happen because she was 'vagina blocked' by her friend.

    I'm ugly as sin and I couldn't believe I was doing things like that. 6 months or so ago, I wouldn't have done any of these. I probably would have set on the fringes of the dance floor looking at my phone. Now I've become the guy that every girl wanted to dance with. Now I've got seven HB 8s and 9s from work in regular conversations with me on Whatsapp or Facebook. Some have turned into sexting.

    How have I turned myself around you ask?

    - I sought help, went for 16 hour therapy course (1 hour/week).

    - I learned to love and accentuate the positives (funny, good listener etc)

    - I learned to accept myself and my ugliness. If you are ugly, then wear that ugly with pride, it reeks of confidence so bad that women can't resist.

    - I started working out. Your body is like a Tolkien nightmare. Evil vs Good. If you don't workout then Evil will win and you WILL hate yourself. The more you workout the more those good hormones fight back and prevail.

    - I stopped carrying about sex and stopped putting too much expectations on things that are not worth spending my hard earned good hormones.

    - I no longer have anxiety attacks walking down the street because I don't care what people think of me. To be fair most people are worried about themselves which is quite funny and never thought of it before. If you think I'm joking then walk down a busy street and look at people.



    In case you're wondering, I'm 26 and a half now and still a virgin and you know what? I don't care. I'm happy both mentally and physically right now. I'm still learning in the ways of PUA and the positive feedback I'm gauging from the women around me is boosting my confidence ten folds.

    I accepted myself fully before I could try and change for the better.

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    Ok. Question.

    if women arent a "priority" or we dont need them to "succeed"

    How come its better to be dead then to not understand them or be good at pick-up?

    How come we have a whole community based around picking up women.

    These statements are kind of contradictory? To me being better with women is a HUGE goal of mine. Please explain.
    I think it wouldn't be as important if it didn't affect your social life.

    People that are bad with women are also bad at communicating with people in general,not just women.

    They usually don't have a lot of friends,they experience anxiety when talking to any human being.They only notice that women don't like them,because they think they have no problem communicating with guys,they just don't want to,at least that's how I felt.

    Believe me if everyone's problem was "How to get my ex-girlfriend back ?"This forum would probably not exist.

    @OP,Most of us have been there,I have been there,if you want to change I suggest you to start from the beginning,like all of us.And stick to the material that suits you most,I personally started with Mystery and then moved on to other books and material and picked up stuff that suits me most.Mystery is a great start to get into the world of game,but in the end I realized that being natural is better though.

    In short,first steps :

    1)Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss.A must read.
    2)Watch Mystery's the Pick-Up artist 1st and 2nd Season.
    This is all to get a taste of what you can be.
    Then start watching more detailed Mystery and Neil Straus's DVDs.

    If you really are desperate as you claim to be,you'll get sucked in to it and get to the point of reading Psychology/Body Language/Natural game books(Note,that it's important to practice the material you learned and not just absorbing the material,"The Game" book should make that clear.),maybe even more stuff,but there's no easy way.


    The easiest way to get over it is grab some balls and start talking to girls.You can watch "Simple Pickup" videos to help you with that.

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    Lol in after shit storm.

    If you still need a shoulder pm me. Ill send you my skype.
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
    -HarryRat(Simplepicku p)

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    Default Re: im doin A.N.Y.N.I.N.G to help my life out. anything

    lilsting was on the money...
    KEEP CALM & get ahold of yourself!

    And Mad props to Marvilo / Grey2Fox too.

    This goes for ANYBODY feeling that same sense of dejection that the O.P. was describing. (We've ALL felt that, so don't go busting their balls for pointing out the REAL situation!!!)

    I've had my heart crushed lots of times!! I've been in the position of contemplating suicide... yes, over a girl!
    I'm man enough to admit it. & MAN enough to show you that I didn't actually do it.

    The point is, ALL of us have emotions & feelings. We ALL get blindsided occasionally. And even though we don't "need" a girl to be successful or happy or whatever...

    I personally think it feels freakin amazing, when I have someone special by my side.
    And THAT is why I started researching / learning PUA...
    So that I could find & attract "THE ONE" when I meet her.

    I know I missed a couple of the other guys while writing this post, but thank you to all of you!!!

    Women suck sometimes. Plain & simple!!
    But so do we.

    And it takes a real MAN to understand that it's OUR job to give them a pass, more often than they give one to US.


    Women are emotional creatures.

    Men have emotions, but are driven more by logic... Even though sometimes, emotions still do affect us more strongly than other times.

    So,to solid in the O.P. I say this:
    I used to SUCK with girls!!!! BIG TIME!
    So trust me, ANYONE can learn this stuff & turn their life around.

    It just requires a person to make the choice to do so.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


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