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Thread: Possibly omw out the F-zone?

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    Default Possibly omw out the F-zone?

    Hey guys, a few days ago i chilled with the female that i joined these forums for in the first place. so just a little back story before i get in to it.

    I had serious oneitis with this girl but i put those feelings aside and moved on. Fast forward two months later, or the day before new years eve, I had not hit her up or saw her once. so anyways I had a day off work and was going to go shopping with a friend. he told me she might be coming along. now i had my doubts because she is notoriously flaky but she actually showed up and to my dismay as soon as i saw her all those feelings i tried to get over came right back. but this time i had knowledge that i didnt have before.

    I gave her a hug and it lasted a few seconds longer then normal, first ioi?. we went shopping at a department store she knew i had worked at last i saw her and while we where there she asked how i was liking working there, i told her i had gotten fired from there a while ago, she asked why and i didnt tell her. she became extremly curious and wouldnt stop asking me why. my friend jokingly said i got fired for getting caught having sex at work. she asked if it was true and i told her it wasnt but wouldnt tell her the actual reason. after this she started getting really physical, touching my ass and even following me around while we where in there. ioi's 2 & 3?

    after that we went to a food court to go eat while we where there she sat across from me and at this point i started to remember what i had read on body language. i sat leaning away from her with my chair and body facing away as well. when i talked, to either her or my other friend i'd lean in for a sec and then when she talked i'd lean back. i immediately noticed that when i did that she would lean in toward me. my friend went to the bathroom and i took the moment of isolation to introduce her to the cube test. i stopped as soon as i finshed her cube and then we went back to shoppin but the entire time i had her full attention and when ever i stopped giving her the test shed ask me to keep going.

    after i finished shopping and giving her the cube test we went to the commons to smoke it was FREEZING, keep in mind the entire time she kept asking why i got fired from my last job, i thought about caving and telling her but i thought that it would be very beta of me to give in so i didnt. while we smoked she sat very closly to me and when i moved away she'd follow. after we decided to head we'd all head home cause it was freezing outside. so we did, we got on the train and headed home. when i got off at my stop i got another long hug even longer then the first and then went home.


    now what is your question, you might be asking. its simple might i be on my way out of the friend zone? she just turned 18 on Christmas and the time i always said i wait for is over. am i just over thinking this? you guys dont know me outside of these forums but if you did you know that im the type of guy that has never wanted a "real" relationship i'd rather have casual ones where there's no titles and im not stuck farking the same one girl forever. but i wouldnt mind having a LTR with this girl. shes the reason i discovered the pua world and i want something more with this girl. so what should i do?

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    Default Re: Possibly omw out the F-zone?

    depends on what you really want.re run attraction game

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    Default Re: Possibly omw out the F-zone?

    Well i can see my self in a LTR with this girl and that's ideally what i'd like to have with her, but i'd also be ok with having a casual relationship, for now at least. thanks for the advice btw, idk when the next time ill see her is gunna be but i have a few attraction building routines memorized for when i do.

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    Default Re: Possibly omw out the F-zone?

    Sounds to me that you are not in the friend zone. She gave you allot of IOI's. All those IOI's you thought you were getting were indeed, IOI's. Not telling her why you were fired was a good move. It really is none of her business and women HAVE to know things. Doing stuff like that creates allot of curiosity and mystery. I have done that many times and it's absolutely hilarious to watch them "jump through hoops" to find out. It can be sooo simple. I wouldn't tell a girl I was seeing my GPA and she obsessed over it. It makes them think about you which creates attraction. I bet she has thought about why you got fired multiple times since you hung out, and I guarantee she will bring it up again.

    Whatever you do, do not start thinking she is different than any other girl or you will develop one-it-is and screw yourself over. Make a move, it sounds like you've got the green light to me. Cheers!

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    Default Re: Possibly omw out the F-zone?

    thanks man, I'm really fighting the AFC side of me on this girl and its tough trying not to slip back into having oneitis again but your absolutely right I have to stop thinking she's completely different from any other female. I was going to wait a few weeks to try to chill with her again so I don't look eager or needy. What do you guys think? how long is a good time to wait?

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    Default Re: Possibly omw out the F-zone?

    hey guys just posting a update, i chilled with this girl for a bit at a friends party on Saturday, i didnt really run game that night cause i was tired and stressed from work but i met a friend of hers while we where smoking in my friends room and mostly talked to my friend and her friend, i talked to her when she asked or directed something to me but for the most part i didnt talk to her to much. fast forward to yesterday, i told my friend to invite her to chill with us. i found out yesterday that she broke up wit her boyfriend cause he cheated on her, once i heard tht it was on. i mentioned the cube test i had given her previously and also mentioned i knew a new one, the strawberry field test. she said she wanted to take tht one too, but i waited a little after she told me to give it to her. but when i did i told her the actual meaning of it and she was amazed (lol i farkin love giving people those tests so if anybody knows anymore please let me know). any ways i noticed her body language and how at times she would sit in a way so she was facing me. i built a lot of rapport with her and also negged her a ton. at the end of the day we left together to catch the train and while we where waiting in the station i mentioned that all those squats she was doing in the gym was really workin cause her ass was looking nice. i watched her face as i told her and at first i saw surprise and shock but after a milli sec she smiled and joked how she only went once and that her ass has always been like that, BAM! negged her again that, that wasn't true at all and i know for a fact, and kinoed her by touching her thigh saying it was just the leggings making it look like she had an ass. one thing i have to work on is kino because i didnt do as much of it yesterday as i maybe should have. well we got to our stop and got of and hugged and i told her i'd see her later, then stopped and said maybe i wouldnt cause i was gunna be too busy with work and school to have free time to chill, got a sad little smile and then we parted ways.

    im gunna wait 2 weeks to push for a hangout, oh and just to let u guys know, i asked my friend to ask her to hangout yesterday, im still technically freezing her out. i havnt texted her or pushed to hang personally since november. the next time we chill im gunna try to get it so its just me and her. but i need some tips on kinoing and escalating. i really hope to pick a day where its nicer outside so we can just chill at the park and smoke and since i get paid bi-weekly i plan on doing a bit of shopping. lmk what you think, there is a good amount to do around here but mass weather is so bi-polar during this time it can be hard getting and doing things in the winter.


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