Hey guys, a few days ago i chilled with the female that i joined these forums for in the first place. so just a little back story before i get in to it.
I had serious oneitis with this girl but i put those feelings aside and moved on. Fast forward two months later, or the day before new years eve, I had not hit her up or saw her once. so anyways I had a day off work and was going to go shopping with a friend. he told me she might be coming along. now i had my doubts because she is notoriously flaky but she actually showed up and to my dismay as soon as i saw her all those feelings i tried to get over came right back. but this time i had knowledge that i didnt have before.
I gave her a hug and it lasted a few seconds longer then normal, first ioi?. we went shopping at a department store she knew i had worked at last i saw her and while we where there she asked how i was liking working there, i told her i had gotten fired from there a while ago, she asked why and i didnt tell her. she became extremly curious and wouldnt stop asking me why. my friend jokingly said i got fired for getting caught having sex at work. she asked if it was true and i told her it wasnt but wouldnt tell her the actual reason. after this she started getting really physical, touching my ass and even following me around while we where in there. ioi's 2 & 3?
after that we went to a food court to go eat while we where there she sat across from me and at this point i started to remember what i had read on body language. i sat leaning away from her with my chair and body facing away as well. when i talked, to either her or my other friend i'd lean in for a sec and then when she talked i'd lean back. i immediately noticed that when i did that she would lean in toward me. my friend went to the bathroom and i took the moment of isolation to introduce her to the cube test. i stopped as soon as i finshed her cube and then we went back to shoppin but the entire time i had her full attention and when ever i stopped giving her the test shed ask me to keep going.
after i finished shopping and giving her the cube test we went to the commons to smoke it was FREEZING, keep in mind the entire time she kept asking why i got fired from my last job, i thought about caving and telling her but i thought that it would be very beta of me to give in so i didnt. while we smoked she sat very closly to me and when i moved away she'd follow. after we decided to head we'd all head home cause it was freezing outside. so we did, we got on the train and headed home. when i got off at my stop i got another long hug even longer then the first and then went home.
now what is your question, you might be asking. its simple might i be on my way out of the friend zone? she just turned 18 on Christmas and the time i always said i wait for is over. am i just over thinking this? you guys dont know me outside of these forums but if you did you know that im the type of guy that has never wanted a "real" relationship i'd rather have casual ones where there's no titles and im not stuck farking the same one girl forever. but i wouldnt mind having a LTR with this girl. shes the reason i discovered the pua world and i want something more with this girl. so what should i do?