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    Default Will Trying To Open To Random HB's Actually Decrease Anxiety?

    As some of you have seen. Most of my questions have involved east girls or me talking to them on Facebook. Well, using Facebook and just texting isn't working for me and it seems to make them disinterested once I try to get them to hang out. I've gotten them to call me cute and sexy and Skyped a couple and had escalation thats actually turned sexual. But then they either get resistant and say crap like "my cars too far away" or they will just stop being interested because I get extra impatient because I want to hurry up and hang in person so I'll always bring that up because I get sick of just talking.

    Anyway, I'd like an answer from someone who use to get real bad approach anxiety and anxiety during conversations that now can talk to really attractive women and pick them up on whether if you just go and open up to random HB's (HB 7-10) if you REALLY do end up talking to them and naturally figure out how to talk to them in a way to keep them interested. I want to know because I'm starting to get a desire for an actual GF but I only want GF's who are at least HB 8's (like a trophy girl) because I have several friends who have HB 7's and above so I want to have that too. Also, I plan on practicing this when I go out of town to the big mall nearby so if I embarrass myself I know I won't see any of the people around me again. I want to do this so if I run into them (like one I go to work with) I'm able to confidently have a conversation and flirt without the anxiety of "what if she rejects me?" and eventually turn one into a girlfriend. My ultimate goal is to find a girl who is in the HB spectrum that I'm talking about and has a personality that I like, because for some reason I have an idea that all girls that are that hot are stuck up, dumb (has no interested in intellectual things), and are completely materialistic. Thanks for any feedback in advance.

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    Default Re: Will Trying To Open To Random HB's Actually Decrease Anxiety?

    Can I start by asking if you've read The Mystery Method or The Game? The fact that you're going online and pushing directly for a meetup has me leaning toward thinking that you haven't.

    Read The Mystery Method, watch everything on Youtube by David Deangelo, Tyler Durden (Owen from RSD), and Liam McRae.. And then come back to this thread.

    Trust me. See you in a week.

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    Default Re: Will Trying To Open To Random HB's Actually Decrease Anxiety?

    I have read the Mystery Method when I first joined this site so I'll go give it another look. I don't push instantly, I build up to it over the course of a couple days of flirty interaction and them talking about having sex with me. Once we get there, I don't really know what else to talk about because I'm just trying to f-close with them. I want to meet any possible girlfriend in person. Any girl I can get to put out on the first night is not worth my time. I learned that the hard way with my ex, they will be able to go and fark another guy right after you easier. I did meet her in person and saw her consistently for around 3 weeks after I met her, but then we went a couple months without talking and then talked one day, then got her to go to the movies with me and f-closed that night. Well, when we broke up she went and farked another guy a week later. So theres my logic behind why not to actually date girls that will give it up right away.

    But anyway, I want an answer to my original question about the anxiety actually decreasing when you force yourself to do it for awhile.

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    Default Re: Will Trying To Open To Random HB's Actually Decrease Anxiety?

    Yes approach anxiety does go away if you make a sustained effort to defeat it (I'm speaking from personal experience here). At this point I have zero AA in night game situations whether indirect or direct, and no AA going indirect in day game. I do still have some AA when I go direct day game but I started working on that recently and it's just a matter of time before that disappears too.

    This is true of any fear; if you push yourself to do something you're afraid of and nothing bad happens (99% of fears guys with AA have are irrational) then the fear goes away over time.


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