I have a very close friend, who is a girl and she is studying university in another city. When she is away we generally chat online, sometimes troll each other in facebook wall.
She shared a very emotional song, which is named "The life sucks" in our language and a friend of hers responded in a humorous yet sad manner. So just to change the mood, i commented something like "Wazzup gurlz".
Then i just checked the other girl, which is really cute, brunette with green eyes, 8 out of 10 i would say.
Then i asked my friend that who was she, she told me that she is one of her best friends and they meet every weekend, i told her that i really liked her apperance and then she told me "so what are you waiting for, add her on facebook an chat".
Normally, i dont take advice from woman and i generally prefer making real world contact with girls if i can, because i believe i am more succesful in real world than i am in virtual world (although i am not really physically appealing, i am an ex wrestler, who gained weight and lost a lot of muscle, 190 cm and 110 kg) but this time, she insisted that i should add her on facebook and i did so.
I dont know why i couldnt wait, i was going to visit her next week anyway, but something made me do this mistake.
So i added her, and 3 hours later, i found out that she didnt accept my friend invitation (when i checked her profile there was "add her as a friend" thing again.)
I told my friend to not to mention anything about me, and i told her that i will "prove my charm again" when i come to visit her, and i will make her add me on facebook.
So here's my quest. I am not really good at "picking up" women, but i am good at "eventually" having sex/establishing relationships with them. But this one, its totally new, i start with a minus point.
What to do when i get that city?