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Thread: I f*ed up badly and it seems hopeless but I dont want to give up

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    Default I f*ed up badly and it seems hopeless but I dont want to give up

    This girl and I had great conversations, (I realize the power of the spoken word is very powerful) I keep her in the friend zone though. I should not have said sorry it ruins everything every farking time when I make a mistake. Thing is she just stopped talking to me as of recent, no replies to my emails or texts and she didn't say anything about not talking to me ever again or anything just that she's like ignoring me, and I am going crazy! I' m sure I made some mistakes that fked it all over but I don't get this. I've emailed her like once and texted her once, and no replies, all I could think of is to email her once more and just say "I miss you,"(which looks needy I know) my natural pua friend says that would be alright in this situation. I've known her for many months and I don't know why she is being like this, its soo stupid, I was unappreciative of something she did for me and she got pissed and then I said sorry and she went into distant mode. This is ridiculous no contact or anything, I freaking can't stop thinking about her and its driving me crazy. I really have no options and no matter how many times people say to forget about her I just can't, never met such an amazing human being before, I cant let it end like this!

    What do I do in this situation I'm going insane is that email any good? What can I do to fix this, I am going to shoot myself in the foot very soon. There HAS to be a way to fix this! She said she was leaving for February, I really want to fix this before that or I fear it will be too late. I can't even talk to her women for some reason its so stupid I number closed like 3 girls this week talked to them for 5 minutes and chucked their numbers out the window out of boredom and disinterest, cant bring myself to give any farks, cause they are lame in comparison.

    Please I really need some help here stuck in a super dead end situation, and I am about to lose it. Thanks in advance to all you guys.

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    Default Re: I f*ed up badly and it seems hopeless but I dont want to give up

    You never got into what happened,, so it's hard to give good advice
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    Default Re: I f*ed up badly and it seems hopeless but I dont want to give up

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    You never got into what happened,, so it's hard to give good advice
    Thanks for the reply and yes you are right.

    So this is the breakdown.

    everything was great until she sent me something for a project we were working on, I was unappreciative of it and she got pissed off + I related one of these things she tried to share with me with a bad experience ( talk about buzz kill). Now next day she did not really respond well to my texts as I tried to switch topics and move past that bad vibe, didn't work and I felt a sorry was in order ( big mistake on my behalf I believe) So she emails me later on and says this is all I can do for the project I need to focus on my school blah blah. Then I sort of fixed it and she was going to come and meet me to drop something off. Now a day later I texted her back seeming kind of needy( asked her if she was still going to manage something for me in the project) Now after that she went Cold turkey, stop replying to my texts and also sent her an email giving her a rough outline for something she said she was going to do for the project anyways. No reply there. I haven't attempted to message her since and I have no idea whats happening here ( I seemed real needy I believe, not sure though). Now she never said anything about ending this whole thing, shes just ignoring my messages. And there you have it no clue whats going on here!

    Please some help would be appreciated, thanks!


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