I recently tried a freezeout. Basically my girlfriend can't meet a lot cause of work. She doesn't like to talk about her work, but when she can't meet really doesn't say the details just that she can't. She is more cold on that realm as being from another culture, and a lot younger.
So I just didn't respond, instead of being needy or argumentative. Then she texted me again later in the evening and I was tired so just say hey. She asks if everything is ok, or if i am ok. I tell her ya and congratulate her on her new job. She tells me I'm being cold. I told her her listen you said you couldn't meet so ok, and I didn't ask you about your job cause you are private about it.
We send lots of messages generally through the week. My issue is if she can't meet, it would be cool if she would tell me whats going on in her week. our schedules make it so its hard to talk on the phone. She really doesn't respond when I tell her about my life. When I am with her we talk all the time and its deep,etc,etc. I want to call her out on it like listen don't be mad when I don't text when you act like you don't give a shit, but I don't wanna be needy, but I don't accept this behavior.
This isn't a nexting situation as its serious relationship but I need some advice. I have a feeling she is gonna freeze me out.