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    Default She remembered my birthday

    Ok so this is the situation, i work in retail and i met a customer and we got talking, the usual stuff. I mentioned that it was my birthday next month during our conversation (I dont know how it came about but it did) but anyways a 2/3 weeks later i called her to come back into the shop to collect the item she had ordered from my shop, while this was happening she wished me a belated happy birthday.

    Now my question to you is why would she remember my birthday when we barely know each other and only talked that 1 time in the shop?

    Im a pretty confident guy so i have no problem in opening a conversation etc but since i am in a work environment i have to be careful in how i approach this.

    My main question is remembering someones birthday a ioi?
    and why would she remember it?

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    Default Re: She remembered my birthday

    Remembering a birthday is a big IOI, and given the fact she's a customer that's just fleeting in and out, it's an even bigger deal. She would remember you and she would remember the birthday because she finds you an interesting person. You say you're confident, and it doesn't sound like you had any issues with you conversations, so she might have found some aspect of you attracting based on your short interactions.

    If she comes back, do about two minutes of light, fun banter, and then say "Oh no! I would really love to get to know you more outside of being a customer, but I have to get back to work. Do you like coffee?" and then recommend a time and place to meet up at a cafe to chat.
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    Default Re: She remembered my birthday

    Thanks for the reply, i just needed confirmation that i wasn't jumping the gun abit in regards to the birthday ioi, because i am in a work environment so in general people will always be nice to you etc but that fact she remembered something that is said sent alarm bell ringing in my head

    Unfortunately i have missed the opportunity to see her again since she collected her item on a day i was off from work. damn it!!

    but i got a plan!! I will call her back in a weeks time from my work phone just to make sure she is happy with her purchase and to make sure everything is working fine. Obviously she will know by then the real reason why i am calling her back.


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