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    Default POF help

    I found a pretty good opener from a pua on youtube. the opener is "serious question! Are you one of those girls who takes forever to get ready, or does it just look that way?" I have gotten some responses from it which started conversations. But this one girl responded with "do you always come off as an asshole or does it just seem that way?" What can i say to that? haha

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    Default Re: POF help

    Not a bad opener. Reply with "Do you always answer a question with a question?"

    Let me know what she says

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    Default Re: POF help

    "Yes I do always come off as that, glad you noticed!" (Being an A-hole is one of my gambits I love to use Nice Guy/A-hole or Hot & Cold). The key is to keep it lighthearted and fun. She obviously sh!t tested your pre-frame and you failed for having no pre-frame back up comeback strategy. Just have a fun lighthearted pre-frame and understand girls will always test you so use it as leverage to flirt.

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    Default Re: POF help

    POF adds variables and takes away others, it's not the same as face to face gaming. You need to give room and a reason for her to reply. Saying "Do you always answer a question with a question?", although it isn't really doing anything to up attraction or comfort levels, it warrants a response, probably something like "Yes I do actually".. To which you can say something along the lines of "I only come off as an asshole to girls who think I'm extremely sexy".

    And away you go..

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    Default Re: POF help

    It's a shit test.

    Reply with:

    "It's actually Mr. ASSHOLE.... yes it's all capital letters. Next time get it right will ya. I've worked hard to earn that title. You don't even want to know what my first and middle names are"

    The worst thing you can do is send a nasty message back. It's so AFC.

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    Default Re: POF help

    To be honest, telling them what you did would annoy most girls. Theres a difference between being overly cocky and a gentlemen. ''Alpha'' males that are grown up dont need to be overly cocky, their confidence comes out in their assertiveness and understanding of people, which comes across in conversation.

    As an opener on POF you have to make yourself stand out from the other men. Annoying the girl isn't going to get you anywhere. Act mature but assertive, and get it into your head that you don't need a girl to be complete. If you are desperate, they will quickly realise this.

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    Default Re: POF help

    You have to be bold & not flinch... be able to handle things like this calmly & with a good attitude.

    I would probably write back & say something like "Hahaha! Touche' sassy-pants! Well played. That was one of the spunkiest messages I've seen. Hmmm, quick witted & kinda cute... that's a cool combination. "

    You want to express confidence & show that you're in control of your emotions, as well as this situation.



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