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Thread: should I Ask her to be my GF?

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    Talking should I Ask her to be my GF?

    Hi, So I have been hanging out with this girl for several weeks now...but it seems like it takes a lot of effort to hang out with her but when we finally do, she can't keep her hands off me. She literally crawls all over me and tries to make out with me, and once we start making out, the clothes come off within 5 minutes and we get busy. Also, I will occasionally use the word babe, hun, sugar to refer to her, but never get it back.

    Im confused: one one hand its not aways easy to get her to meet up, on the other hand when e do, she seems to be crazy interested - initiating kissing, hand holding, sex etcc

    She is 27, i am 26.

    QUESTION: SHOULD I SPEAK TO HER AND FIND OUT WHERE THIS IS HEADED OR TELL HER I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SOUNDING NEEDY? WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND HOW SHOULD I DO IT?

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    Default Re: should I Ask her to be my GF?

    Hi, So I have been hanging out with this girl for several weeks now...but it seems like it takes a lot of effort to hang out with her but when we finally do, she can't keep her hands off me. She literally crawls all over me and tries to make out with me, and once we start making out, the clothes come off within 5 minutes and we get busy. Also, I will occasionally use the word babe, hun, sugar to refer to her, but never get it back.

    Im confused: one one hand its not aways easy to get her to meet up, on the other hand when e do, she seems to be crazy interested - initiating kissing, hand holding, sex etcc

    She is 27, i am 26.

    QUESTION: SHOULD I SPEAK TO HER AND FIND OUT WHERE THIS IS HEADED OR TELL HER I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SOUNDING NEEDY? WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND HOW SHOULD I DO IT?

    she may be the kind of girl who is the friends with benefits type (as in she doesn't want anything serious) if she is like that, your best bet is to just keep having sex with her regularly and she will develop an emotional attachment to you. let her pursue the relationship, you're job is just to pursue the sex.
    as n10se would say "the rout to the mind is through the bodie" (as in physical stimulation will lead to emotional stimulation)

    you don't want to go afc and ask her for a relationship. if you really want to push the relationship onto her you could say something like "I want you to be my girl" but pushing the relationship onto her will probably take some of the thrill from your hookups. for all you know she could be in a relationship and cheating with you for the thrill of it. like I said the best way to proceed is to just keep doing what you've been doing.

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    Default Re: should I Ask her to be my GF?

    meteora is absolutely on point here. Just keep doing whatever it is you're doing now, she seems to be really enjoying her time with you and the attraction is evidently where it should be. Continue to show her things that reflect your value; Have her over one night and cook for her, dress sharp when you see her, let her in on your goals etc.. Things of that nature. Don't bring up the relationship situation though.

    My own personal little extra piece of advice for anyone in your situation? Look into how to give mind blowing oral sex. I'm serious dude. Not a lot of guys are good at it and any woman sincerely appreciates a guy who knows what he's doing down there.

    Good luck to you!

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    Default Re: should I Ask her to be my GF?

    Listen to these guys. I was in your situation with a woman this fall who was very beautiful and was really into me. She just got out of a serious relationship and didn't want anything serious. I subconsciously pushed for the relationship. I.E. I would call her babe and she would say "Im not your babe" and I would laugh. (shit test passed) Then she reframed it later as "so I'm your babe now?" I told her yes, she is. After that point she began to lose interest then essentially "broke" up with me. This girl liked me for years and was super into me. All I had to do to win was be cool, bang her when she was around, and eventually she would have brought up the relationship stuff. I know this for a fact. Don't make the same mistake. Like Meteora said, If you bang her long enough she will become emotionally attached and want more.

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    Default Re: should I Ask her to be my GF?

    Thanks guys, your input and time is very much appreciated and you make solid points.

    I'm thankful for your help

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    Default Re: should I Ask her to be my GF?

    Definitely do NOT change a thing. Keep at it. I have a saying... "The Pussy Latches On" Women are unlike men in that we can separate Sex and Love... give it enough time and every woman who continues to have sex with the same man will fall in love.


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