Ok I will try not to write a book here so here goes: I met this girl about 4 years ago in college, but up until now we have only been friends. However, I never really pursued her when i was at school. I have been graduated since may, she is getting out this may. It wasn't until i saw that she was dating someone at a football tailgate this fall that I thought 'damn why didn't I make a move back when i was still in school?' Fast forward to now: Saw her at our mutual friends graduation and i told her we should hang out sometime (she lives about an hour from me and she is now single) So i took her on a 'date' to see a movie this past friday. She said she had a great time and she invited me to come to church with her (today). So i went, and had lunch with her and her family afterwards. She wants to hang out again when i get back from my business trip this week. Here is my dilemma: I know the sooner you kiss, the better, but in this case, how can i build the type of attraction that i am here for the real deal, considering I have known here for this period of time? Also, i have previously only tried to enter relationships from romance first, so to speak. Is there any hope for this type of friendship first, the relationship to follow type thing?