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    Default Busting an unofficial friendzone

    Ok I will try not to write a book here so here goes: I met this girl about 4 years ago in college, but up until now we have only been friends. However, I never really pursued her when i was at school. I have been graduated since may, she is getting out this may. It wasn't until i saw that she was dating someone at a football tailgate this fall that I thought 'damn why didn't I make a move back when i was still in school?' Fast forward to now: Saw her at our mutual friends graduation and i told her we should hang out sometime (she lives about an hour from me and she is now single) So i took her on a 'date' to see a movie this past friday. She said she had a great time and she invited me to come to church with her (today). So i went, and had lunch with her and her family afterwards. She wants to hang out again when i get back from my business trip this week. Here is my dilemma: I know the sooner you kiss, the better, but in this case, how can i build the type of attraction that i am here for the real deal, considering I have known here for this period of time? Also, i have previously only tried to enter relationships from romance first, so to speak. Is there any hope for this type of friendship first, the relationship to follow type thing?

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    Default Re: Busting an unofficial friendzone

    Building interest begins immediately may present yours here.

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    Default Re: Busting an unofficial friendzone

    This is a tricky situation. I wouldn't do anything overtly showy of your interest. At least not right away. What I would do is try to make it seem like its her idea. Both of you are old enough to go to a bar i gather... take her out for a few drinks. Get her inhibitions down. Then marginally start extending your eye contact. Give her a smirk every once in a while like you are thinking about her in a romantic way but DONT SAY OR DO ANYTHING. If she cracks and flashes you an IOI or two I would then PLAYFULLY say 'If i didnt know any better it seems to me like you are trying to get in my pants' and then wait. Smile. Say nothing. Gauge her reaction. If she laughs or blushes then you know its on and I would continue slowly escalating always making her feel like she's seducing you. If she says 'lets get another round' you say 'are you trying to take advantage of me?' etc. Keep it light. Let her drive. Be cool and confident. She ASKED YOU to go to church. She INTRODUCED YOU to her family. You are the PRIZE. In fact be extra nice to female bartenders or waitresses (not FLIRTLY) just funny. That will help establish how COOL you are.

    Moral of the story is RELAX. You ARE THE PRIZE. Remember...You get chicks all the time. You aren't desperate.

    Just how i would handle it. Interested to see others responses.

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    Default Re: Busting an unofficial friendzone

    Thanks for the response Serial, I talked with her very little this week on my trip to Houston, a snapchat and a very brief text conversation. She isn't blowing up my phone at all, so I will follow your advice. I know she is kind of busy anyway since she is getting ready to start her internship.


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