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    Default Money Management

    I've been going on a lot of dates and having some good success which is great, but it sure is damn expensive.

    For first dates I'm usually taking them out to dinners or drinks. Should I step it back and just do coffee for a first date?

    What do you guys usually do for a first, second and third date?

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    Default Re: Money Management

    If money's an issue, just do coffee date for the first date. Second date and further could be anything from a walk in the park/mall, walk around in a farmers market, picnic, go to a spot in your town with a nice view and bring a blanket to lay on maybe even bring some wine (cheap $10 rose wine seems to be a winner for me). Other dates depending on comfort level is movie and drinks at ur place.

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    Default Re: Money Management

    I ask my dates to split the bill. They usually appreciate the fact that I have the guts to ask to split the bill and they agree without question. Give it a try.

    When you pay the bill all by yourself, it's like spending money to buy her time. This is not acceptable for an alpha male. In fact, she should be the one who's investing more in order to spend more time with you.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Money Management

    I save sarging for Spring and Summer but leave Fall and Winter to rebuild funds. This is a great strategy since pretty much every hot chick is going out during the warmer tropical months. Not to mention the Gurus empathically (but not practically) suggest 6-7 days a week sarging (300-365 days a year if you do the math) and there is no way to afford that. So I am building funds now like I said as we are in Winter that's why no FR's right now.

    I just recruited a wing at work who really enjoyed listening to my sarging stories. Now he wants to get babes with me. It's easier to manage money this way since it costs to go out, date, get Day 2's. Sometimes they pay but that is the exception not the rule. I would be still sarging every weekend however I got a lady friend who wanted to hang out all the time and I soon realized I hadn't planned on this type of success. So I took a step back and said "wait!" I'll wait till I get funds built up since the numbers were just racking up. It wasn't about money to her but to get in comfort you have to date first before staying the night at her house all the time.

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    Default Re: Money Management

    I've been going on a lot of dates and having some good success which is great, but it sure is damn expensive.

    For first dates I'm usually taking them out to dinners or drinks. Should I step it back and just do coffee for a first date?

    What do you guys usually do for a first, second and third date?
    you take girls to dinners for your first date??? that's your problem. I wouldn't take a girl out to dinner until I've determined that she's serious relationship material and we've known each other for at least 2-3 weeks.

    the quality of the date is not based on how well you eat, its based on how well you present yourself.

    hell, I have fun telling girls i'm taking them somewhere expensive and then taking them to taco bell and telling them that's the most expensive I thought they could afford (since we're splitting the bill)

    another great option is to go out for ice cream, its good, fairly cheap, and when you kiss both of your mouths will taste sweet to each other.

    and the cheapest date you can go for is just a walk around the city. or to go for a drive in the countryside, or go hiking at a state park.

    remember all that really matters is that your sharing time together and getting to know each other better (and hopefully having fun)

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    All very good suggestions, thanks!


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