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    Default Boyfriend Destroyer or Wingman tactics

    Hi,
    So I'm overseas with a college group for 3 weeks travelling around europe (it's for a class). There's a girl in my class that i hadn't met before, but now we know each other kinda well after a few weeks here. We're linked up virtually now (twitter, facebook, snapchat etc) and we talk all the time in class and at meals.
    Problem - she has a boyfriend back at college. She talks about him pretty often too. It's a shame because she's a great girl and i know him to be an awful guy and complete douchebag.
    So question, what would you recommend i do in this situation? I see her in class everyday and often for hours when exploring the city. Is there a system I should use in this situation to overcome the boyfriend problem, or should i try and set her up to be my wingman when we return to college (she has a lot of attractive friends). If so, should i say something? I'm not looking for another female friend that will complain about her boyfriend all the time without helping me at all.

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    Default Re: Boyfriend Destroyer or Wingman tactics

    I hate to bust your bubble, but the boyfriend destroyer technique only worked on a small percentage of the woman I've used it on, it really only works if she's right on the edge of breaking up with him already. odds are she has you friend zoned, and she's probably not going to leave her current relationship with an unpredictable guy to be with a predictable guy (I'm assuming hes more interesting than you are wich is the main reason she's got you friend zoned)
    just because a girl talks to you and is fun to be around doesn't mean she wants you sexually.

    you've already over-invested in this girl if you are thinking about using a boyfriend destroyer. odds are she is happy or at least ok with her current relationship. she's not going to leave him unless he suddenly becomes boring (odds are he has her on an emotional rollercoaster)

    you're best bet with this is to stay friends with her and game other girls. if she becomes single again you may have a shot.

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    Default Re: Boyfriend Destroyer or Wingman tactics

    Thanks for the advice. To be fair, I only just met her. She was already in the relationship when i met her so it was nothing to do with my behavior. You're kinda right about being unpredictable though - that's something i'm not good at. What kind of behaviors do you recommend on a day-to-day basis to make yourself more unpredictable?

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    Default Re: Boyfriend Destroyer or Wingman tactics

    What kind of behaviors do you recommend on a day-to-day basis to make yourself more unpredictable?
    there are too many to mention. basically you just keep from having a pattern of behavior.

    for instance, lets say my girlfriend comes and sets on my lap. I could be predictable and always just wrap my arms around her and hold her on my lap. or I could be unpredictable by sometimes shoving her off and sometimes letting her set there and maybe sometimes pulling her hair and kissing her neck when she does it. switching things up constantly will keep you unpredictable.
    never do the exact same thing more than twice in a row.

    for more stuff on being unpredictable, I would recommend you read David de Angelo's "double your dating"

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    Default Re: Boyfriend Destroyer or Wingman tactics

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    there are too many to mention. basically you just keep from having a pattern of behavior.

    for instance, lets say my girlfriend comes and sets on my lap. I could be predictable and always just wrap my arms around her and hold her on my lap. or I could be unpredictable by sometimes shoving her off and sometimes letting her set there and maybe sometimes pulling her hair and kissing her neck when she does it. switching things up constantly will keep you unpredictable.
    never do the exact same thing more than twice in a row.

    for more stuff on being unpredictable, I would recommend you read David de Angelo's "double your dating"
    Many times(not only regarding this post) I see people giving advice "be unpredictable", send her "blabka mkha" and so on. While this may work to some extent, why not push yourself to actually BE unpredictable and all those things instead? Maybe it's just me but I just don't like all the acting and trying to be things I'm not. I just think there are better things to lay your time on.

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    Default Re: Boyfriend Destroyer or Wingman tactics

    There is a technique i use called the 'Narrow Approach'..To me boyfriend destroying is automatically built into game sort of.when i met my friends some of them had men in thier lives but later claimed they were single.did i bash them nope.maybe its me or them but yh.


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