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    So I was talking to this girl... everything was going fine we even hooked up over the weekend. i met her last thursday and then monday... she just went dry.. waited like 8 hours to return a text. we were supposed to get drinks last night but i fell asleep on monday before i saw her text.. so tuesday i sent her a text firming up drinks for wednsday, last night.. she never responded so i was like whatever not gonna push.. so no contact... i figure she just got cold feet and whatever.. so i delete her number from my phone and add her to the blocked text lists cause i figure i should prob just forget about her. well last night she texted me like 8 times after i had gone to bed, but my text blocker doesn't save texts. so is there any way i can recover from this?? or should i just chalk it up as a failure and move on.

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    Default Re: text block blunder

    First, understand that over reacting gets you nowhere. What's the use in getting butt hurt so fast?

    You are wayy too dependant of the outcome. Definitely stay within this interaction and practice detaching yourself from the end result.

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    Default Re: text block blunder

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    First, understand that over reacting gets you nowhere. What's the use in getting butt hurt so fast?

    You are wayy too dependant of the outcome. Definitely stay within this interaction and practice detaching yourself from the end result.
    what he said, dude calm down, way down.

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    Default Re: text block blunder

    thanks guys needed to hear that.

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    Default Re: text block blunder

    Never block a number... Unless it's your girl's husband lol!

    Even then, you can just give them a name so u know who it is. Something like "don't pickup psycho boyfriend"
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    Default Re: text block blunder

    As the others have said... RELAX.

    On a related note I find a LOT of panicky insecurity threads on this forum. Guys flipping out and writing 300 word essays about whether or not they should return a text. Obviously i get that the point of this forum is to support each other and to voice these questions, and we all sometimes lose sight of the forrest for the trees and need a voice (or chorus) of reason to bring us back, but It surprises me. Maybe the average age of poster on this forum is younger? Less experienced?

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    i'm typically not insecure at all...

    I've just found that the girls i end up liking put me through the same ropes that I put the girls through that I just use for sex. so it throws me off...

    i've also been off aderall all week, so my brain is a little jumbled and i'm not on my typical game.

    i'm in my mid to late 20s though with a good job and nice condo, and the majority of my game is night game in the bar/nightclub scene, so i tend to do pretty well

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    Default Re: text block blunder

    Quote Originally Posted by tkc32186 View Post
    i'm typically not insecure at all...

    I've just found that the girls i end up liking put me through the same ropes that I put the girls through that I just use for sex. so it throws me off...

    i've also been off aderall all week, so my brain is a little jumbled and i'm not on my typical game.

    i'm in my mid to late 20s though with a good job and nice condo, and the majority of my game is night game in the bar/nightclub scene, so i tend to do pretty well
    I certainly didnt mean what i said as an attack... it's just surprising to me. If what you are saying is true about your age, job and pad then feel confident! However hot this girl is, however great in bed she is, thats bullshit without the rest of the package. And NOT worth feeling insecure about. You get me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SerialSeducer View Post
    As the others have said... RELAX.

    On a related note I find a LOT of panicky insecurity threads on this forum. Guys flipping out and writing 300 word essays about whether or not they should return a text. Obviously i get that the point of this forum is to support each other and to voice these questions, and we all sometimes lose sight of the forrest for the trees and need a voice (or chorus) of reason to bring us back, but It surprises me. Maybe the average age of poster on this forum is younger? Less experienced?
    Men come here looking for magical answers. They want us to solve their problems by giving them every response or move. Granted, this is sometimes needed for the truly hopeless but it's better to fail and learn imho.

    Just reply to people who you feel u can help. If they keep at you, tell them to try on their own to see what develops. They usually get the point.
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    Default Re: text block blunder

    @serialseducer didn't take it as an attack at all.

    confidence is the hardest thing for me to keep up. its tough... idk

    @lockdown I agree there are no magic answers to solve all problems

    i try to take all experiences as learning so when i'm in a similar situation again, i'll know what to do.

    if the scale is 1-10 this girl is an 11... so yeah next time i have an 11 i won't be as thrown off. i'm gonna put her on ice for awhile. if she texts me back cool if not, theres a ton of other girls that want her spot...

    BACK IN MY WORLD!!! thanks guys!!!


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