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Thread: Reinitiate contact in Tinder

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    Default Reinitiate contact in Tinder

    I've been using Tinder for like a week, already got a few matches. I look up for some great Tinder openers, and actually tried some - sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't. But in some cases, I first started to talk with the matched HB, it went great, but I didn't close or anything else.

    In one cases, it turned out that the HB and I went to the same secondary school in the other end of the country. We had a good talk, she added me on facebook, but that's it, we haven't talked since.

    An other HB is a hot brazilian chick, but I got a match when I was at home for the break (I live in the capital city hundreds miles away anyway), but I though it's a good practice. I ask about herself, use some routine (she even emntioned "Oh, you are so deep in your questions...), there were some jokes. But I had to go, so told her to add me on facebook if she likes - I thought it's a good test if I was good at the conversation, but she didn't add me, so I guess I still need to develop my Tinder/Text game.

    And the last chick answer me like 2 times, but since then, nothing. I just made a statement in my last message, nothing questions, but I supposed to get answer from her.

    So my question is: is there any point reinitiate contact in Tinder? And if yes, how can I do that? Or if I don't ask her out, #-close or anything the first time, it's just hopeless after that?

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    Default Re: Reinitiate contact in Tinder

    Not hopeless, but it's a lot easier. I'll go about 3 texts and after confirming her interest in meeting up, I'll say "I'm not on Tinder much- what's your number ?"

    If she's in a different city that I'm in, a generic conversation would be:

    Me: "Hey rockstar"
    Her: "Rockstar ?"
    Me: "lol are you in Vegas ?" (Note: I know she's not in Vegas since she's 100+ miles away, but it's better to have her tell you than her think you're creepy)
    Her: "No. Are you?"
    Me: "Hmm... Where are you ?"
    Her: "I'm in Random City"
    Me: "Niice I go there twice a month"
    Her: "Oh really?"
    Me: "Yeah grab a drink next time I'm in town?"
    Her: "Sure"
    Me: "Great I'm not on Tinder too often- what's your number ?"

    That is a very standard message thread I have with girls that are in different cities. With their number, the odds of seeing them again are drastically higher than pinging them on Tinder.
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    Default Re: Reinitiate contact in Tinder

    It's good stuff, I will definitely try it. Thanks, cdharders!

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    Default Re: Reinitiate contact in Tinder

    One thing I noticed about tinder is to strike while the iron's hot! I've been using it for maybe 2 weeks now, a lot of very good looking matches and great response rate. I say something similar to get their number, more like "I'm about to get off wifi, lemme get ur number".

    But yeah strike while the irons hot. This one girl, id say a solid 9 was very interested in me, gave me her number without me even asking. Maybe 3 days later she called me to invite me to a party but I was sick so I made up some excuse. About a week later after I was better I started talking to her and it was like talking to a brick wall. She ignored my first message then a couple days later I sent her some dumb opener and she just replied, "K". Haven't hit her up since lol

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    Default Re: Reinitiate contact in Tinder

    Boom! Og_pimp hit nail on the head!! Yes always get it while the getting is good
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