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    Question How would you respond to this text?

    So I already f'd it up, got butt hurt and lost composure, lesson learned but I'm wondering how the experts would have handled this.

    me: It's so freaking hot outside! I had to wear my Speedo to work today. Hi by the way!
    her: Hahaha hi
    me: Instead of running the AC we all sit on ice blocks, I'm literally freezing my butt off What's your cute face up to?
    her: Hahahaha just plugging away
    me: How about we plug away on a glass of wine after work?
    her: No can do tonight the bachelor is on!!!!
    her: Spaghetti factory is doing dinner for 4 bucks tonight and I'm almost disgusting enough to go
    her: But so shameful
    me: DVR it!! I'll see you there at 7:00
    her: Hahaha your bill will be $8 you cheap farks now get out of my face


    What would you have said next?

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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    I'd go with something along these lines...
    Be playful but confident....

    "Dang! Touche' sassy-pants! You made me spit my drink out my nose, brat! I'll let you know how good it was. "


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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    Ugh if only T-Mal!! Thanks man, that's a great suggestion.

    I ended up not responding. She txt'd me the next day and I asked her 'what's up with the text' and quickly went into AFC mode and blew it.

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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    It just takes experience & practice.
    I had to screw up quite a few times too, before I started to "get it".

    Look at every situation like this as a learning scenario.. not a failure. You're gonna mess up at times.
    But eventually you'll be able to laugh about it when it happens.


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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    Well if it were me I wouldn't have led it in that direction in the first place. I like your opener but I wouldn't have said "What's your cute face up to?". It puts her on a pedestal when you compliment her looks. A few other things in there I wouldn't have said but for the sake of the thread lets pretend I said it and got up to the "her: Hahaha your bill will be $8 you cheap farks now get out of my face".

    From here since she already sort of rejected your date, I would stay playful and make a joke out of it. something like: "Yeah, you're right, $8 is waaay too much for your punk ass! We'll stick to the dollar menu from McD's. Nothing but the best for you babe". Then she'd probably pick up on my sarcastic tone in that message and send me something sarcastic back like "you're so sweet" and I'd respond, "you know it! You better put out if I'm takin you somewhere as nice as McD's! Those McChicken's aint cheap!! lmao".

    Just my two cents

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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    Awesome suggestions OG_PIMP! Which direction would you have gone, and what would you have said instead?

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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by CoolerMaster View Post
    Awesome suggestions OG_PIMP! Which direction would you have gone, and what would you have said instead?
    I would have stopped before saying "what's your cute face up to". By writing that it shows you're waiting for a response from her which makes it so robotic in my opinion. If you just wrote:

    "me: Instead of running the AC we all sit on ice blocks, I'm literally freezing my butt off "

    Her response would have most likely given you more to work with....assuming you at least have some attraction built with her. You're leading the conversation when texting which is good but it seems like you're too outcome dependent.

    For me, I do a little banter back and fourth and if it seems to be going in the right direction I then ask her out on the date, when the conversation is at its peak. Like if you crack a funny joke or she shares something personal with you. She's more likely to say yes at that point. If it's not going in the right direction, then slow down the convo and pick it up another time.

    Now this is just personal preference - but if it's you're first date I wouldn't have asked so formally. By that I mean directly asking her out on a date rather than inviting her out to join your fun. Instead of "lets plug away over a glass of wine", I woulda said something like "Work can be so tiring! I'm going to get drinks for happy hour later to decompress, you should join!". With that message, it seems like you don't care whether she comes or not, you're going to have fun regardless. Whereas your message, if she says no, then your plans are ruined and you have to do something else.

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    Default Re: How would you respond to this text?

    Damn, that makes so much sense. Alright very cool, thanks for taking the time for the explanation OG_PIMP!


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