Tonight was the first time this happened.
I approached a 3 set at a pub. 2 of the girls were hot, blond and brunette. I wanted the blond. I ran perfect game but after isolating the target and about 10 mins of kino I went to set up a date and n-close. She tells me she has a bf but mentioned that the brunette friend is single. Needless to say the brunette did't want to fell like second place and the set folded.
Okay so I could use some expert advice. Without showing any IOI's how do I discover who is single?
If this happens again how do I re enter the set and go for 2nd place winner without her feeling like 2nd pick?