Re: Should I deal with my sadness or just be happy, confident and cocky?
There's only so much self-help books can do. THe next step is to take positive actions to help you.
There is the inner game and outer game approach to all situations. If you start with inner game, your outer game will eventually have to catch up. If you start with outer game, your inner game will have to catch up. YOu already have teh inner game understanding. You need to employ outer game techniques to start feeling different and better about yourself. Start smiling even when you don't think you have anything to smile about. Say "Hi" to people, even if it doesn't make sense. Start there and sky is the limit on what opportunities will start to come your way.
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