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    Default Need advice when asked *are you trying to pick up*

    I went out into the night yesterday saw a 3 set and opened them with the "whats your definition on cheating?" That is when one of the girls asked if i was trying to pick her up? I just simply told her "If i was i would have opened up with are you from Tennessee" They laughed but i felt like i could of said something different.

    So next time this happens how does *sorry mam its going to take a lot more than a pretty face for me to pick you up* (all while having a smug of a smile) I feel like it shows DHV that im the prize. what do yall think?

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    Default Re: Need advice when asked *are you trying to pick up*

    It may, and on the other hand it may come off as ignorant. What you ended up saying was good though. Lol it happened to me once and I just told her "yes I am". Pretty lane but it was just a quick response without me thinking. Women like the truth when it comes do stuff like that because not a lot of men have the gut to do it.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Need advice when asked *are you trying to pick up*

    Shit test.The classical "What?" or Woah woman can't belive that came out of your mouth.. fallback as if you just lost interest.. continue.
    if she is really seems bent on that, walk away.

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    Default Re: Need advice when asked *are you trying to pick up*

    Her: "are you trying to pick me up?

    Me: "Uh, no not really. I would but I have a bad back."

    Her: Wait, are you trying to say I'm fat?

    Me: "Trying not to actually. But don't worry. I like a little junk in the trunk. The more there is of you the happier I am so no need to get your panties in a bunch."

    Her: Whatever dude.

    Me: What are you like six. Listen, you'll never get in my pants with that attitude.

    Her: Yeah, whatever.

    Me: There it is again. You know I thought you were a little more mature than that but I guess not. I'm ok with you eating orios every other day but you need to change your attitude if you want to hang with me.

    Her: Ok. Sorry.

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    Default Re: Need advice when asked *are you trying to pick up*

    Quote Originally Posted by Riddle0FI0 View Post
    I went out into the night yesterday saw a 3 set and opened them with the "whats your definition on cheating?" That is when one of the girls asked if i was trying to pick her up? I just simply told her "If i was i would have opened up with are you from Tennessee" They laughed but i felt like i could of said something different.

    So next time this happens how does *sorry mam its going to take a lot more than a pretty face for me to pick you up* (all while having a smug of a smile) I feel like it shows DHV that im the prize. what do yall think?
    Not bad actually. See my post above though. There are so many ways you can do this. It definitely is a s@#% test but don't worry. Just maintain your cool and put your own spin on it without giving her the answer she expects(or in some cases even wants).

    My stock response would probably be "Well I would but I have a bad back." She will probably think you are implying she's fat in which case you could just say well even if I was I do like my women a little plump so that's not a problem for me." The thing is just be non reactive and always maintain high value by not giving a chump response. The worst thing you could do is say "Uh, no I'm not trying to pick you up." Dooooooohhhhhh.You may as well have a sign on your back that says "I know I look like a man but I really have a vagina."

    When she asks you that question you could also say "hey, you should be so lucky. I don't see any other guys trying to push me out of the way to talk to you so you should be nice to me. "

    There's just so many possible responses here. "Absolutely, but I'm trying to figure out where I should put you. I'm thinking in the corner with all the other bad girls. " Or maybe Sure. You don't have a problem with that. Oh wait you probably do because I can tell you are a problem. You and me will probably just argue for the next ten minutes. Maybe I don't know what I'm getting into. Maybe I should go find some other girl to pick up instead. " With something like this you are letting her know she is not your only option and you are doing her a favor and not the other way around. When a woman "pushes" you then push her back. Sometimes it's necessary to put a barrier up. Think of it like that track and field race where the runners have to jump over the hurdle. She has to jump over your hurdles(instead of just you jumping over hers)if she wants to win the race. You are the prize. Not her. There is only one of you but lots of other girls out there.

    Just be alpha and keep much of the conversation( especially the s*** tests)cocky and funny and I think you'll be ok.

    I have one more piece of advice though. You should never let it get to the point where she thinks you are singling her out in the group. If you approach by giving all the women equal attention(as soon as possible since I realize sometimes you need to approach one if the others are engaged in conversation)then you shouldn't have this problem. And so by the time you do get to the one you want she will be into you anyway. So I think that if a woman asks you this(even though there are ways to answer effectively)it usually means there is something wrong with your approach and whatever you said put her on the defensive so I would suggest looking at how you approach them.

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    Default Re: Need advice when asked *are you trying to pick up*

    Would've looked her right in the eye and said.. "No but here, I can try" *clears throat* *look away and reestablish eye contact* excuse me miss, are you a beaver?... cuz DAAAAAAMNNNNN" .. there how was that? buahaha


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