Hi, first time posting.
So looking for a little advice and thoughts on a recent fling that ended suddenly.
I am 34 and recently went back to college to finish up a earlier degree and met a younger girl in one of my classes. She is 22.
She recently went through a breakup with a long term relationship. Her Ex moved back to another state so was no longer in the picture.
We started talking and after a few semesters of classes together we happened to be in the same area one night and she texted me to meet her at a bar. She was with a bunch of her friends and I met up and bar hopped with them for a few hours. Throughout the night I could tell she was interested and we danced a lot, made out, and she grabbed my package a few times while dancing. We didn't hook up that night because we were 75 miles away from her house and she came with friends. Two nights later she came over to my place and we had sex and continued to for the following 3 weeks.
We were never dating and she, nor I were really looking for a relationship per-se but we were having a good time and enjoying each others company, or so I thought. So fast forward to about a month after hanging out a few times a week, and maintaining a healthy sex regiment, we ended up going away together on a cruise for a weekend. The cruise was awesome and we were having sex 3-4 times a day while on vacation. We got back from the trip and had sex the next day just before the holidays.
So, Then the fade started, for the next week she was busy with family with the holidays (understood) as I was also, but then she suddenly got very busy with work and this progressively the calls and texts became fewer and more far between. So not wanting to play any games, I asked her straight out what was up and she replied that "She didn't see us going anywhere" and "just wanted to be friends" so, I was taken aback by this as we went from full on to zero almost instantaneously. We have still been talking over for about two weeks now since this happened but it seems like a chore now and It just isn't sitting right with me. Looking for some advice and insight as to what happened or how to get the REAL answer out of her.