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    Default Videos of my ex

    Hey guys I'm new here

    Basically, my gf and I broke up about 5 months ago after being together for about 4 years.. she broke my heart. I've been doing better recently, the first couple months were really hard. I've been with a few other girls since, but it's still kind of hard. I compare everyone to her, and no one comes close. I hope this is normal behaviour... She was about a 9, I was extremely physically attracted to her.

    Well, over the course of our relationship she let me make some videos, mainly of her going down on me.. I used to watch them quite aq bit when we were together. I still have them but I haven't let myself touch them.. I've been tempted lately though but it scares the shit out of me just thinking about watching them. I'm curious what you guys think. I'm nearly over her I think... But physically it still drives me a little crazy thinking about her that way, you know? Is this normal? I've been with some other girls, hot ones, but they're nothing like her. I hope it's all in my head.

    Do you guys think if I watched them it would completely ruin me and send me backwards, or do you think maybe it wouldn't be such a big deal. I feel like if I was able to watch them and not have it really bother me than I wouldn't think about it anymore.. if that makes sense. I know I could easily just get rid of them, but I feel like if I do I will regret it later.. Always told myself I'd keep them if we broke up haha. I'm sure some of you understand.

    Thanks for reading.

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    Default Re: Videos of my ex

    If you watch them you're going to want her back giving you head so...
    Do what you want man.

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    Default Re: Videos of my ex

    Get rid of them and move on? If she broke your heart and you end up letting her in again then she's bound to break it again. How about you forget about her and find other women who want you. You seriously don't need to carry her emotional baggage with you. Drop them now. Focus on other women, exercising, hobbies and other activities and you will soon forget about her, you'll be amazed at how quickly that will be.

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    In the immortal words of Chip Douglas: Don't look at it. Don't even touch it. Resist the urge at all costs. Seriously though, delete those videos IMMEDIATELY! I found some pictures of my ex on my phone a while ago and I felt like crap looking at them. It tore me up thinking that while I'm in bed looking at her pictures she's out having fun with some guy or whatever. So I deleted them and got over it. Sort of. Just delete them and you'll feel better. It takes time.
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    Thanks for the replies. I know it's a bad idea, that's why I haven't touched them. I think you guys are right that it would mess with my head. I think I'll get rid of them..

    As far as this feeling of no other girl even comparing to her, is that normal? It doesn't even matter how hot the girl is, I compare every little detail to how my ex looked. It's retarded. Same with when I'm in bed with someone new.. If she doesn't do things the same way, it's always worse in my mind. Even if it's better. If that makes sense.

    Has anyone else experienced this?

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    Yeah it's the emotional connection. The sex or whatever else you're getting may be as good or even better than what you had with your ex. Don't get me wrong, hopping down to the bar and grabbing a total babe and bringing her back home is awesome but you'll never get the same level of satisfaction as you've had before with an ex from a LTR.
    "You know what my dream for this summer is? To have all the girls that you and I have farked this summer out on the SS Vagina."
    "That is the dream. It'll be one big mess of bad decisions and failed relationships."
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    Default Re: Videos of my ex

    Flow is spot on with almost everything. Breakups can be hard, especially if you're not the kind to get over things easily. Having an attachment to the past is rough, but eventually you have to move on into the future. Destroy the videos, go outside, and enjoy the world.

    I can say though that it is not downhill from where you are, as flow implies. How each girl makes you happy changes from one to the next, and you never know how satisfied you're going to feel. I can say that my current girlfriend satisfied me more physically than the last girlfriend, but my last girlfriend satisfied me more emotionally than the current one. You never know what you're going to get because not all people are the same.
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    Default Re: Videos of my ex

    If you want to watch porn, watch it on free porn web site! But if you want still see your ex naked, that's another issue. If there is no chance for you to get her back, get rid of whatever that she has in your house and in your life! Then date a nice girl and let her get close to a level that she brings some things to your house, such as toothbrush , shoes , towels etc! Then I am sure you won't think of your ex at all.

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    Default Re: Videos of my ex

    hey man, what you have had can be amplified with any woman power lies in you..
    yep i would watch those videos or probably would have lost them.how about learn hardcore game and then have all your girls you really like make a video for you or not.

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    Default Re: Videos of my ex

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    hey man, what you have had can be amplified with any woman power lies in you..
    yep i would watch those videos or probably would have lost them.how about learn hardcore game and then have all your girls you really like make a video for you or not.
    I'm pretty sure that the reason the videos mean anything to me at all, and why the fact they even exist are having such an affect on me, is due to the intense emotional and physical connection her and I shared. I'm not so sure making videos with randoms would have that affect.

    You would watch them or you would have lost them? I'm not sure I follow.

    Thanks for all the kind words and advice guys, a lot of it really helps. This is a weird situation for me.


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